Realizing That You Are Choosing for Yourself

I think there are times in life when things just don't go well.

At such times, it's common to end up blaming others, isn't it?

I used to be like that too.

But when you think about it carefully, you are actually choosing that situation yourself.

✅ Fate was not fate

There are times when I think that the family I was born into was dysfunctional.

My father was an alcoholic, and we lived a life where alcohol was always by his side.

Because of that, there was always tension in the family, and we were constantly in a state of vigilance.

However, while it's understandable to accept this as fate when you're a child, once you've become an adult to some extent, it's actually no longer fate.

You might be convinced that you have to stay there forever, but in reality, you should be able to choose whether or not to be there.

When people get stuck in a certain mindset, they feel like they have no other options and stop thinking, which is why their lives don't improve.

Let's think more about the fact that you have choices.

✅ The fact that there are surprisingly many options

For example, even if you want to quit your current job, you tend to think you can't because of your living situation or your family.

However, I have changed jobs many times, and surprisingly, things work out even after you quit.

In this way, there are many things where you just assume you have no choice, but in reality, you have many options.

What to eat today, whether to exercise for your health, or whether to spend your time lazily watching online videos—these are all your choices.

Even if you feel like you are being forced to choose by others, you are actually the one making the choice.

If you observe yourself with more sensitivity regarding those subtle points, you may find that you have more choices than you think.

✅ Summary

What will you do today?

Those reading this right now have endless choices.

Ultimately, as long as it is not against the law, you can choose anything as long as you are willing to take responsibility for it.

You might think that taking responsibility is scary, but surprisingly, that responsibility is often not as heavy as you think.

What will you choose today?

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