There are things I know I should do but don't

If I were to be completely honest with my heart, I feel like I would stop doing everything.
It is just a hassle, anyway.
However, there are a few sources of energy that keep me moving.

• One is curiosity.

• One is excitement.

• One is avoiding things I dislike.

These are basically the things that make me move.
I think that while there may be individual differences depending on the person, the fundamental principles of behavior are likely similar.

✅ It is indeed a hassle

When you don't do something even though you know you should, it's because the feeling that it's a hassle has won out.
I discovered this rule within myself when I was debating whether or not to pick up a crumpled tissue that missed the trash can.
It's not that hard to just pick it up and throw it away.
However, I feel a conflict in my heart.
Even though it's such a small thing, I found that my heart was feeling a sense of it being a hassle.
Ah, I see, I realized that a room getting messy is a phenomenon that people fall into when they keep losing to these small hassles.

I think it's important for people who want to do what they want to do, and what they know they should do, to win every time against this three-second feeling of it being a hassle.

Once your win rate increases to a certain point, the joy of a sense of accomplishment outweighs the hassle, and you start to be able to do it automatically.

✅ But it gets even more troublesome

What happens if you keep losing to the initial hassle that appears at the start of an action?
In my experience, I have repeatedly encountered even more troublesome things coming my way.

For example, whether or not you do the slightly troublesome task of washing the dishes in the kitchen when you get home determines whether or not you can avoid more trouble later.

If you leave them unwashed, you will be hit with the trouble of having to endure your wife's anger, which stems from her own sense of it being a hassle, for several tens of minutes.

I have formed a hypothesis that the way the world works is that if you run away from the initial hassle, something even more troublesome will inevitably come later.

How we deal with that initial hassle is, I believe, the core and the beginning of winning at life.

✅ Summary

As a final conclusion, living is ultimately a hassle.
Ultimately, eating is a hassle, sleeping is a hassle, and sometimes even going to the bathroom is a hassle.

However, I have experienced many times that if you neglect these small hassles, a huge, unexpected, and troublesome situation will come later.
I am realizing that the correct way to live is to do things steadily every day.

This is something you can check even now.
If there is something right now that feels a bit like a hassle, let's shake off the feeling and just do it.

Because that will prevent unpleasant, troublesome things in the future.

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