My Feelings Are What's Real

Sometimes, my own feelings do not align with conventional wisdom.

For example, conventional wisdom says that when a child is born, having a cute child makes you happy.

However, when you actually raise a child, you might feel lonely, things might not go well, and there are times when your body is so exhausted that you just want to cry.

✅ In the case of solo parenting

I experienced a situation that is rare in society, where my wife was away on a long-term work assignment for 10 years.

Well, even before she started that assignment, my wife worked night shifts, so there were many times when I had to raise our children alone from the time they were infants.

My mother had already passed away by then, so I truly had to look after the children all by myself.

People in society might think that having children must mean I was at maximum happiness.

But living alone with a daughter who wouldn't sleep, suffering through sleepless days, and being tormented by the loneliness of not being able to talk to another adult was my reality.

So, it is a fact that my feelings at that time included loneliness and a sense of hardship.

✅ In the case of work at a company

At the company I previously worked for, I was able to get promoted to chief.

This is also something that is often considered a happy event by conventional standards, isn't it?

However, getting promoted naturally means that your responsibilities become heavier.

In order to fulfill that role, at that time, I had no choice but to work beyond my limits.

There were days when I couldn't go home, and sudden business trips to distant places, leaving me quite exhausted.

In the end, due to overwork, I developed depression and panic disorder, and after taking a leave of absence, I ended up resigning.

This is another case where there is a gap between the situation as society might perceive it and my own feelings.

✅ Summary

If you are always trapped by conventional wisdom, you may end up leaving your own feelings behind.

However, the correct answer lies in your own feelings, and if you do not cherish them, you will end up damaging your body and mind.

Society is, in fact, an illusion.

Do not be misled by things that seem to exist but do not; believe in the truth of your own feelings.

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