Unreasonableness exists, but we keep on living

There are many things about the traits we are born with or the environment we are born into that we cannot change, aren't there?

While it is possible to change them through effort, I think it's undeniable that it's a bit of a hard mode.

However, I felt that instead of becoming bitter and complaining about it, it is important to think about how we can live better lives.

✅ Emotional wounds

As we live for a long time, events that cause emotional wounds, whether large or small, will inevitably occur along the path of life.

Every time that happens, I think it's unreasonable, and while the wounds received heal to some extent, they sometimes leave scars that ache from time to time.

Even recently, when similar events occur, there are times when things I would normally let slide get stuck because my past emotional wounds are aching, and I just can't get them out of my head.

Since I am an adult, I don't show it on my face or in my attitude, but I do feel the thoughts I keep hidden in my heart piling up.

That is why I am always thinking about what to do when things like that pile up a little.

One way is to cleanse your heart by doing things you love.

Another way is to talk to someone you trust and let that unreasonableness find peace.

However, what is important is to carefully determine whether the person you are talking to is truly trustworthy.

✅ How to choose people to trust

First, try choosing a few people based on your intuition who you feel you might be able to talk to.

Then, try letting out a little bit of the sediment in your heart to see their reaction, and judge whether they seem trustworthy.

If you can't communicate well there, you can just think that you are not compatible with that person and stop talking to them.

Among them, if you find someone you think, 'Oh, I can talk to this person!', let's have deeper conversations.

By talking to each other while expressing gratitude, you can sometimes resolve the sadness and anger toward the unreasonableness that has built up in your heart.

Even if you can't find someone in your real-life relationships, the internet is well-developed now, so there is definitely someone out there who will understand you, so please don't give up and keep looking.

✅ Summary

I feel especially lately that there are many unreasonable things in society that I didn't notice at all when I was a child.

In recent years, while diversity is being emphasized, there are also many cases where people are excluded even from within that diversity.

It will likely take a long time for society to come together well, but I want to live positively while resolving this unreasonableness in my own way.

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