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Improving things is surprisingly easy

Today, I suddenly realized that I was limiting my actions based on my own assumptions.
All I have to do is release that little latch and become free.
I just need to create the mental space to move that latch.

Humans tend to try to maintain their usual, normal routines.
This is probably because having homeostasis was advantageous in the process of human survival.

However, in the modern age, just soaking in lukewarm water is not enough.
As humans, we will end up becoming soft and flabby.


✅ Mental assumptions are holding you back

There is a reason why we often struggle to take action and end up spending our time just as we always have.
It is because of teachings we learned when we were small, or things we learned somewhere and have come to believe.

However, times change, and there are moments when what was once considered common sense begins to shift.
That is happening right now, and even our guidelines for action may no longer be valid based on old common sense.

At such times, we must release the latches of our mental assumptions.
Perhaps you might not even realize that you are being held back by a latch.

That is precisely why taking time to face yourself becomes so important.
And then, you must make a decision.

✅ Once you release the latch, you are free

If you find the latches you were previously unaware of and release them, you will realize that you can actually go freely to places you thought you could never reach.

We are held back by various ways of thinking and things considered common sense, and we are fixed in place.

There are times when goals emerge every year, every month, and every day.
However, there are times when you cannot reach them from where you currently stand.

In such cases, you just need to release the latch you have arbitrarily attached to yourself so that you can move from there.

If you do not notice that latch, you cannot even remove it; that is why you must constantly observe yourself and know what is acting as your latch.

Once you understand that, the latch is surprisingly easy to remove.
It is often just that you were convinced it could not be removed.

✅ Summary

Looking back like this, improving yourself is surprisingly easy.

What makes it difficult is a problem of the heart.
You may be unable to act because you have given up from the start, trapped by assumptions and common sense.

Even that can be resolved; you just need to click the latch open and move forward.


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