The idea that if you are serious, you will definitely do it

Have you ever experienced something like this?

When it is something you love, you end up doing it on your own without anyone telling you anything.

I suppose this is human nature.

When you love something, you become serious without even realizing it, so you can do it naturally without having to force yourself.

✅ If you cannot do it, you are not serious

If that is the case, perhaps the things you think you want to do but cannot do are things you are not truly serious about somewhere in your heart.

For example, if you think you want to clean your room but cannot seem to do it, it means you are not serious about it.

Think about it carefully.

Cleaning is something that gets done if you just do it. It is a very simple thing.

But if you cannot do it, I think it really means you are not serious.

So, let us think about where that dilemma arises.

✅ Eliminate conditions and create a small sense of seriousness

Cleaning and such are actually troublesome and you do not want to do them, but you are in a state where you want a cleanly organized room.

In other words, you want the result, but you do not like the process.

At times like that, what I do is eliminate the conditions that prevent me from doing it, and first, I create a small sense of seriousness.

In my case, if it is a chore I do not like, I put on headphones, play music to get into the groove, and then start the cleaning work.

Then, I get more and more into it, and I start thinking, 'I will do this too, I will do that too.'

By filling the conditions that prevent you from doing something with things you like, once you actually start moving, you become serious and can often do more than you expected.

✅ Summary

When you want to do something but cannot, there is often a reason why you do not actually want to do it.

By properly identifying that, you will understand the countermeasures.

Let's find things that can eliminate the conditions that make it impossible, in your own way.

By doing so, you can create a small sense of seriousness in your heart.

If you can create that seriousness, you will gain the ability to execute what you want to do.

Don't aim for big things right away; please try starting with small things!

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