It is normal to lack confidence

In the past, I was troubled by my lack of self-confidence.
However, looking back, I realize that no matter how far I progressed on the path to recovery or how much I aged, there was almost nothing I could do with complete confidence.
This means that being in a state of lacking confidence might just be normal for human beings.

✅ I lack confidence, but I will do it anyway

I don't always have confidence in my current job either.
Although there are things I am somewhat used to, every day feels like I am being tested in some way, and there are times when a lack of confidence creeps in somewhere.
However, perhaps it is because I do it anyway that value is created, and I receive a salary as compensation for that.
For example, even in my family life, I am someone who lacks a lot of confidence, always wondering when my wife might say she wants a divorce.
I have been a stay-at-home husband for a long time and have done the housework and childcare, but when we have an argument, I lose even more confidence.
But I do it anyway.
Even if you lack confidence, as you keep doing it, you reach a level where you can manage somehow.

✅ Failure is success

Because I lack confidence, this life is full of failures.
But when I think that if those failures hadn't happened, what followed might have been even worse, I can say that those failures were successes.
Current failures will be useful for something in the future.
So, while it might be a failure at the time, a moment will surely come when it proves useful.
You don't have to force yourself to think positively, so don't blame yourself for the failure; just accept it as it is.

✅ Summary

A normal lack of confidence is a lack of confidence necessary for living.
I have realized that lacking confidence is the default.
Perhaps it is human nature to live in a state of lacking confidence.
Conversely, being overconfident can sometimes lead to more failures.
Humans tend to let their guard down.
Let's live by making our lack of confidence our strength.

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