Don't leave your self-evaluation to others

In places like school, evaluations are often done by teachers, aren't they?
Perhaps because of that influence, I feel like there are many people who cannot properly evaluate themselves.
People who have become accustomed to being evaluated by others sometimes find themselves unable to evaluate themselves well.

✅ It's okay if you can forgive yourself

In truth, it is best to evaluate yourself on your own.
Other people's evaluations are vague and often quite uncertain.
They might be right occasionally, but that is only a small part of who you are.
Rather than acting based on the habit of others' evaluations, if you can develop your own core and evaluate yourself, life becomes easier.
People who have lowered their own standards due to others' evaluations will find that life becomes truly easier once they re-evaluate themselves and learn to forgive themselves.
To do that, let's get rid of the habit of acting based on others' evaluations.

✅ You can learn to like yourself

When you become able to evaluate yourself like that, you can also evaluate the parts of yourself that others have criticized, and you will start to like yourself.
In other words, your self-esteem will increase.
Once you become able to take care of yourself and manage your own mood, you won't need to depend on others, and every day will become much easier.
Besides, since the standard is yourself, you can purely like yourself without comparing yourself to anyone else.
Even if you are a version of yourself that spends time lazily, it is fine to feel that version of yourself is lovable too.

✅ Summary

Other people's evaluations are cold and detached.
However, if you can evaluate yourself, you can evaluate yourself with more passion, which makes it easier to find motivation every day.
Even if you feel down sometimes, you will be able to forgive yourself for that too.
Let's graduate from a life where your mood is swayed by others' evaluations and become a person who can make themselves happy.

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