Expecting things on your own and feeling disappointed on your own

When you work hard on something to make someone happy, and there is no particular reaction, you can feel disappointed, right?
But that was just something you did on your own, and it simply didn't resonate with the other person at all.
I understand this frustrating feeling.
However, the other person has their own circumstances and feelings, so you have no choice but to process it within yourself.

✅ It is okay to feel down for a moment

You worked hard on various things thinking it was for the other person.
Moreover, you spent a considerable amount of time on it.
In times like that, when there is no reaction from the other person, you feel quite disappointed, don't you?
But this is a natural movement of the heart, so feeling disappointed is not a bad thing.
Even if there is no reaction from the other person that matches your efforts, that is something you cannot change.
If you can just manage your own feelings of disappointment, you can return to your normal life afterward.
Once you have felt as down as you need to, you should gradually start to feel better.
Then, let's move on to the next action.

✅ You are you, they are they

In the first place, your feelings and the other person's feelings are completely different things.
Even if you did something thinking it was for the best, for the other person, it might not be anything special, or it might even be a nuisance.
What you should think about at times like this is that you are you, and the other person has their own circumstances.
Therefore, whatever reaction the other person has, first accept it and focus only on organizing your own mind.
The other person's feelings belong to them, so you cannot change them.
Before you waste your efforts, organize your mind and take different actions.

✅ Summary

Whatever you do, even if it is for the sake of others, it is your own choice.
If you worked hard on what you were supposed to do, that is fine.
The other person's reaction is like a bonus; it is great if they are happy, but if there is no reaction, that is also fine.
Because you took action, you have grown, so that alone makes it worth doing.
Without getting too caught up in the other person, let's calmly do what we need to do.

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