The Surprising Sin of Being Unable to Assert Yourself

Like me, I used to be a person who couldn't assert my feelings well.

At first, I thought that no one understood what I was thinking.

Even though I thought that way, no one helped me, and I even felt a bit resentful toward the world at times.

✅ If it's not expressed, it's as if it doesn't exist

If you don't express yourself like I did, people can't understand you, can they?

I want you to think about it from the opposite perspective: if there were someone around you who didn't say what they were thinking, could you understand them?

You wouldn't be able to, right?

That's exactly it; if people don't properly express what they are thinking, no one will understand them.

It's sad for you if you can't express yourself, but it's actually also sad for the people around you who can't know what you're thinking.

Even if there is someone who actually has the ability to help you, they can't do it if they don't know.

If they are being resented for not doing anything in that situation, I think that's quite unfortunate for them.

✅ If it builds up inside, it will rot

If you can't express things outwardly, they will start to build up inside you.

For example, a wooden box that traps humid air will gradually rot from the inside out.

In other words, it is very important to keep your heart well-ventilated.

Therefore, as I mentioned earlier, expressing things outwardly becomes that ventilation.

By doing that, your heart will naturally become refreshed, and you will be able to live comfortably.

Furthermore, when you express yourself, people who are good at those things will naturally start to help you.

✅ Summary

It's okay if you're clumsy at it.

Just being able to express what you are thinking can be a great way to keep your heart from rotting away.

If you just expect others to read your mind, you will rarely be understood.

Even if you are clumsy at it, let it out and polish your self-expression little by little.

Let's keep things well-ventilated and lighten our hearts.

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