Relationships Have a Shelf Life

Sometimes, when you try to get in touch with people you became friends or acquaintances with in the past, things just don't go well.

This is because each person's lifestyle and way of thinking have changed.

✅ Do not cling to relationships that have ended

People you no longer see much anymore are those whose relationship with you has passed its shelf life.

Because your life stages and ways of thinking have changed, forcing yourself to meet them often results in nothing gained.

If you cling to relationships that have ended in this way, you will hinder new encounters with others.

Therefore, do not cling to ended relationships, and instead take action toward meeting new people.

✅ How to identify relationships that have passed their shelf life

So, how can you tell when a relationship has passed its shelf life?

For example, if you have a friend from high school, but your work cycles are completely different and you can't find time to meet, that is one pattern.

You may have hung out together back then, but as adults, the lifestyles of those with children and those without differ significantly.

There are also patterns where you can't meet easily for reasons like that.

When you reach that state, you can judge that the relationship has passed its shelf life.

✅ Value new relationships

You might think that if you don't chase after ended relationships, you will gradually have fewer friends and feel lonely.

However, as your lifestyle and way of thinking change, you will become close with different people.

Valuing relationships that suit your current self provides more opportunities for learning and helps you level up.

Therefore, I recommend actively participating in places where you can build new relationships.

✅ Summary

I used to think it was better to have many friends, but I feel differently now.

It is valuable just to have a small, select group of friends around you.

I think it is a significant waste of time to try to force a connection in a relationship that has already ended.

If you have that time, you should take action to build new relationships with people you haven't met yet.

And, by learning about worlds you didn't know before, let's raise your own stage in life.

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