My Posting Policy and Comments Section

Thank you for visiting. I am a science-major mom raising a 2-year-9-month-old son who is just starting to talk a little, and a 6-month-old daughter.

Recently, I am grateful to have had more opportunities to receive comments from those who read my posts.

Advice based on personal experience, words of empathy, or expressions of gratitude are my support and encouragement.

Really, truly, honestly, thank you so much.

Posting Policy

My policy for posting is “I hope that those who read my posts will be happy.”

Sometimes I vent the hazy, dark parts of my heart, but surprisingly, many people tell me “I empathize with you” on those posts as well.

Empathy is a healing power.

In that sense, I write these posts thinking that venting my frustrations does not go against my policy.

Comments with good intentions

In the midst of this, I received a comment about the dangers of smartphones, which was shared with good intentions.

I understand that it was well-intentioned.

But, but, it is painful.

Everything is an excuse, but there are situations where I have to rely on my smartphone due to my physical condition or simply because I don't have enough hands. If someone says that moms in the era without smartphones managed just fine, I have no rebuttal to that.

Thinking that there might be others who would feel pained seeing that comment just as I did, I informed the person that I would be deleting the comment itself.

It goes against my policy for someone visiting my blog to feel pained and close the page... it was a difficult decision.

Being careful about where I direct my focus

Mother Teresa left behind these words:

What I want to say is exactly the same thing.

Instead of focusing your consciousness on a state of "I don't want this to happen,"focus it on a state of "I would like it to be like this."

What I want to think about is proactive usage.

Regarding how children interact with smartphones, saying "Smartphones are dangerous, so don't let them touch them!" is not an anti-war movement, but an anti-smartphone movement.

Instead, we are living in an era where children cannot even imagine a life without smartphones.

I believe it is important to think about the peaceful use of smartphones and how to use them proactively.

Hesitation regarding this decision

Therefore, I may delete comments that go against my policy, even if it is clear that they were made with good intentions. I apologize for this.

I hesitated quite a bit before making this decision.

I am truly grateful that you read my posts and even leave comments, so I worried that this might be too rude...

However, I thought thatnothing is more important than ensuring that those who read this feel happy,so I decided to take the plunge.

I hope for your understanding.
Thank you for your cooperation.

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