Happiness that Spreads by Changing Yourself [What I'm Glad I Learned]

Yesterday, my eldest son (9 years old) said something in the bath.

"I think I'll ask Santa for a Mercedes for my 16th birthday ♡"

I was listening, thinking, 'Wow, he said something amazing again...'
"Because I want to drive it when I get my license at 18, so I'll ask Santa for it ♡"
he said.
He says outrageous things with such a cute face.

My second son, who heard that, said,
"It won't fit in Santa's sleigh, so in cases like that, Santa brings a toy Mercedes!"

He said that, and just as I was relieved, thinking, 'Nice assist, second son!', he added,

"Oh, I see! Then you can just make it a birthday present!"

It was a nerve-wracking bath time listening to my children's requests (lol).

As a mother, I'm nervous about my children in various ways, but I think it's wonderful that they can talk about their dreams in such a big way ✨

I felt a change in my sons.

In the past, they were more realistic.
I feel like they used to say "but" or "anyway" a lot.

The reason my sons changed is surely because I changed.
What changed more than anything since I started learning is my inner self.
The way I talk to myself, the way I look at things, and the way I perceive things have changed significantly.

Because I stopped making excuses to give up on myself, that way of being comes out in every word I say and rubs off on my children.

I can't do it because I don't have money.
I can't go because it's far away.
Instead of giving up like that from the start, first, say it out loud.
From there, think about what to do.

There isn't just one way to do things,
so you can buy it, or you can receive it; it's fine to have many such choices.

By doing that,giving your world many choices.

The result of that is
that they've reached the point where it's okay to get a Mercedes from Santa, or have Mom buy it for them (lol).

I started this learning because I wanted to be happy and enjoy my days more, and I'm very happy that it's spreading to my children like this 😊

I love my current way of thinking.
Of course, there are times when I worry or come to a standstill, but
"The fact that many choices are expanding in my world"
"The fact that I don't have to make excuses to give up"
"Living for myself without being trapped by something or what's considered normal"
"Being able to enjoy daily life"
"Enjoying the 0 to 1 process"
These feelings are at the root of it.

As for parenting,
I want to show that way of living with my back as a mother, and I want to see my children always excited about their own futures and enjoying and expanding their daily lives 🌼

Changing yourself also changes the important people close to you.

What you can permit for yourself, you can permit for others, and
what you cannot permit for yourself, you cannot permit for others either.

That is why I felt that changing yourself
also greatly involves those around you.
It's wonderful when happy thoughts spread, isn't it? ♡

Since I'm at it, I want to fulfill my children's orders, so I'll also put in an order to fulfill my children's dreams 💫

When it comes to manifestation, people tend to focus on what has been achieved, but I believe these kinds of daily changes are the real thrill of it 😊

Daily life is where happiness is ❤️
Thank you for reading again today!

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