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I tried 'not doing' things, both on note and in daily life

The right answer, the standard way, what's not allowed, what you shouldn't do...

Whose standards are those?


But even when you're told, 'You can do whatever you like,'
that makes you feel lost in its own way


Where should I be heading?

Don't you ever feel that way?




That is
the same even when you look at things related to note

✔️ What's the ideal character count? Is it bad if it's too long or too short?
✔️ Are diaries and short posts meaningless?
✔️ The issue of whether to follow or not
✔️ How many 'likes' should I give, and how far should I go?
✔️ The issue of whether to publish paid articles or not
✔️ What about the profile? What about the sitemap?
etc


It's better than other social media (for me)
Still, once I start thinking about it, there's no end to it



Basically,'Let's just try it'
is what I usually say, but I stopped for a moment

And then,
the long weekend ended without me doing anything 😅

Today,
I'm making it a 'day of intentionally not doing things' ❣️


Up to this point, I've intentionally

written a not-so-positive (in other words, negative💦)
post





During the long weekend,
I did various other things

'I intentionally stopped doing XX'



Let me list a few things I stopped doing~





💡 I intentionally ignored the neighborhood festival completely


There's a slightly large shrine festival
Every year I go out a bit, browse the food stalls, visit the shrine, and buy a paper fan or folding fan...
But this year, I stayed holed up at home 🏠




💡 I intentionally didn't open note


Usually, from the time I wake up until I go to sleep,
I check note countless times, but
I kept my distance from my smartphone,
and as a result, I didn't open it

I was curious about what the creators I usually read were up to, but I stepped away for a bit

During that time, I still received comments, mentions, likes, and follows, and I have nothing but gratitude ✨


💡 I intentionally didn't make any plans for the long weekend


Do holidays have rules like

“You have to go somewhere”
or “You have to do something”




I’ve always thought so, so lately I’ve been trying to keep my schedule as empty as possible.


Until a while ago, I used to get calls every holiday asking,
“Where are you going today? I’m sure the kids are looking forward to it.”

…💦
I realized that was actually quite stressful! Of course, if my family has a request, I’ll consider it flexibly.🌸







💡I dared to delegate housework.


I had been relaxing at home the whole time, so I had plenty of energy, but I asked my family to do some small chores.


Like putting dishes in the dishwasher or bringing in the laundry…
It’s okay to have them do things even without a reason like being tired or having other errands, right?☺️

(They actually did it without any fuss)




💡I dared to eat what I wanted at the time I wanted.

Meal time at X o'clock, so go shopping at X o'clock, start cooking at X o'clock.

Make a main dish, salad, and soup…
(That’s usually how it is in our house)


I tried stopping all of that.

Thanks to that, meal times became quite irregular, and my family ended up having to eat snacks, but

I was able to do things my own way.
✌️



I guess that’s about it.


Come to think of it, after the sun went down and it got cooler, I went outside for a walk.😆
Is it called twilight?


The sky was filled with magical colors…
That time of day in summer makes you feel kind of nostalgic, doesn't it?

It’s a bit different from the melancholy feeling of autumn.


I remembered a shojo manga I used to like (though I forgot the name).🍀
I want to read it again.



I also want to go to a place that is 'the countryside'.

My mother’s parents' house by the sea
(which is spacious, has a grandfather clock, and even a detached building) is the very image of summer vacation.🌻




I dared to send a note today that is

✔️aimless,
✔️has no punchline,
✔️is diary-style,
✔️and doesn't worry about character count~☺️




I think I'll go back to business as usual starting next time.



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