To you who would rather 'choose where to bloom' than 'bloom where you are planted' — Changing your environment is not running away, but the courage to protect your dignity —

The other day, a psychology teacher said something to me.

'Bloom where you are planted' is a beautiful phrase, but sometimes it can bind people.

I was struck by that moment as well.

At first glance, it is a dignified and positive phrase.
However,
it is not always the case that everyone can bloom in every place.

Even though the environment just doesn't fit,
one feels as if 'my efforts are not enough.'

As a result,
hurt, worn down,
without being able to demonstrate one's true potential, the heart withers.

How many people are there like that?

✦ You do not have to force yourself to bloom in soil where you cannot

For plants to grow,
sunlight, water, temperature, wind,
various conditions are necessary, aren't they?

It is the same for people.

・A place where your kindness is exploited
・A place where your efforts are buried so deep they cannot be seen
・A place where your challenges are laughed at
・A place where your sincerity is not valued

In such soil,
no matter how hard you try, it is difficult to bloom.

That is not a deficiency in you,
it is simply that 'the soil is not right.'

Yet, many people
blame themselves, saying 'I must try harder.'

✦ The choice to 'move to a place where you can bloom' will change your life 180 degrees

The psychology teacher continued like this.

'People's abilities, self-esteem, and even their relationships change just by changing their environment.'
I nodded deeply at those words.

・There are people who respect you

・They watch over your challenges without laughing
・Your efforts are seen as a light
・They treat your very existence with care
Just by moving to such a place,

people begin to bloom surprisingly well.
It is not that the scenery changes,

but that you regain your original radiance.

✦ Choosing your environment is not 'running away'

Please, remember this.

The choice to change your environment
is not an act of running away from something.

It is the most sincere and courageous decision
to protect your dignity.

I
support from the bottom of my heart
the future where you choose a 'place where you can bloom.'

Your flower
will continue to bloom and spread in many ways from here on out.🌸✨

These are the secrets to setting goals