It's Okay If You're Not Good at Tidying Up! Creating 'Lasting Tidying Habits' Using Affordance Theory
Introduction
Why is tidying up such a hassle?
You think, 'Alright, I'm going to tidy up today!' and you can keep it up for the first few days.
But after a week, you realize everything is back to how it was.
In the blink of an eye, things are scattered all over the table.
There are three pairs of shoes in the entryway, and laundry is piled up...
...I'm sure many of you can relate to this daily routine.
But it's not because you're lazy or because you have a weak will.
Actually, in the background, the relationship between our 'brains' and our 'environment' is deeply involved.
What is 'Affordance'?
The keyword for this series is a slightly unfamiliar term, a psychological concept called 'Affordance Theory'.
Simply put, this is a theory that
'objects and environments work to prompt people to take certain actions'
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For example...
When you see a doorknob, you naturally feel like 'pulling' it
If there is a bench, you naturally 'want to sit'
If there is a table in front of the sofa, you end up putting things on it
These 'unconscious actions' seem like they come from within us, but in reality, the surrounding objects and their arrangement were 'inviting' those actions.
In other words, it's not 'your' fault that you can't tidy up.
It might just be that the 'layout of your home' or 'how things are placed' was unconsciously triggering the 'cluttering behavior'.
It's easier to 'change the space' than to 'change your personality'
People often say they want to have a personality that is better at organizing, but changing your personality is hard, isn't it?
However, if you just make a few small adjustments to the space or the placement of items, like 'changing where you put the remote' or 'moving the laundry basket slightly,' it's surprisingly easy.
And those changes will gradually have an effect on our behavior.
In this article, based on psychological insights, we will explore
what kind of placement of items makes things prone to cluttering
Conversely, how can we change the system so that you 'naturally want to tidy up'?
With this perspective, I will introduce steps to transform your home into one where tidying up continues.
You don't need special tools or storage techniques.
The methods I'll introduce are not tricks for creating a 'perfect, stylish home' like those seen on social media.
It's about being able to recover easily even when you're busy every day, have children, or things get messy.
This content aims for that kind of 'realistic daily life where tidying up continues.'
And above all,so that tidying up changes into an 'easy and pleasant action'I will add 'psychological triggers' to the space in your home.
After reading this, you should feel like taking action.
The goal of this article is not just to end with an 'I see!' moment.
I will provide 'psychological tips that lead to action'—things you might think, 'Maybe I'll try this'—as concretely as possible.
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'By organizing your home, your daily life becomes organized.'
You should be able to experience that realization little by little, but steadily.
Now, why not start today and break free from a daily life where you 'weren't good at tidying up'?
Let's make psychology your ally and create 'small changes' in your life.
Chapter 1: Is not being able to keep up with tidying up due to your 'personality'? Or is it the 'system'?
The guilt of 'It's messy again...'
You wake up in the morning, and documents and snack bags are scattered on the living room table.
Even though you were supposed to have tidied up at night, you notice it's back in this state before you know it.
'I really am so sloppy...'
Have you ever thought that?
But please think about it for a moment.
If you tidied up properly at night, but it gets messy again right away, it might not be because you are lazy, but becausethere is a 'system that makes it easy to get messy'in your home.
In this chapter, we will shift our perspective on the causes of not being able to keep up with tidying up from 'personality' to 'environment.'
And I will convey that what is needed to change your behavior is actually 'spatial design' rather than 'effort' or 'strength of will.'
People's behavior is determined by their 'environment'
In psychology, there is a concept called 'situationism.'
This is the idea thata person's behavior is influenced not only by their personality but also by the situation and environment they are in at that time.
For example, someone who folds their towels neatly in a hotel room but leaves them lying around at home.
Someone who is productive with PC work at a cafe but is lazy at home.
In both cases, it's not that their 'personality' has changed.
The environment is eliciting that person's behavior.
Similarly, 'not being able to tidy up' might just be the 'environment of your home' making you do so.
What is Affordance Theory?
This is where 'Affordance Theory' comes in.
This is a concept proposed by psychologist James J. Gibson, and simply put, it is
"the property of an object or environment that 'prompts' a human to perform a specific action"
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For example:
When there is a doorknob, you 'want to turn it'
When there are stairs, you 'want to climb them'
When there is a sofa, you 'want to sit on it'
These are all examples of how objects and shapes naturally elicit our behavior.
In other words,our behavior is influenced more by 'surrounding objects and their arrangement' than by our 'inner self'.
So, what happens if we apply this to 'tidying up'?
'Bad Affordances' in Tidying Up
Actually, there are many affordances lurking in our homes that unconsciously elicit the behavior of 'making a mess'.
For example:
A wide, empty table -> You want to put things on it
An empty shelf -> You end up just shoving things in
A bag brought into the living room -> It tends to be left where it is
All of these are examples of psychological guidance at work that makes you 'want to put something in that spot'.
In an environment like this, no matter how much you think, 'I'm going to tidy up properly,' your behavior won't easily change.
Because you are being led to 'put things down or leave them scattered' at an unconscious level.
People who can tidy up have made adjustments to their space
Conversely, a 'tidy home' is often not because the person is meticulous, but rather becausea system that makes it hard to get messy is already in place.
For example:
A temporary tray for mail is located near the entrance
A box that perfectly fits the remote control is placed next to the sofa
A place for a child's school bag is located along the flow of movement in the living room
These are all places designed so that 'putting things back' is not a hassle.
In other words,people who can tidy up don't have 'amazing personalities,' they are just 'making the environment their ally'.
Why 'mechanisms' work better than effort
Even if you think, 'I'll try hard to tidy up,' it won't last long.
However, if there is a 'system that makes it easy to put things back,' it will naturally become a habit.
This is also related to how the brain works.
The brain has a nature of avoiding 'troublesome things' and preferring 'easy choices.'
Therefore,
if you need to take two extra steps, that alone makes it a chore
if you can't put it back without opening a drawer, that alone raises the hurdle
As these 'minor inconveniences' pile up, the phenomenon of 'not tidying up' is born.
Therefore, 'reviewing your tidying system' can be said to be the most effective approach to changing behavior without going against the brain's habits.
The kindness of not blaming your 'personality'
Having read this far, some of you may feel a little relieved, thinking, 'Oh, it wasn't my fault after all.'
In fact, believing that 'I can't tidy up because I'm no good' becomes a source of stress in itself.
When people feel stressed, their judgment and motivation decline, resulting in a vicious cycle where they become even less able to take action.
That is why it is important 'not to blame yourself.'
And instead, add 'mechanisms' to your space that make it easier to tidy up.
With this approach, your actions will change without needing to change your personality.
Summary: If the space changes, the habit changes
In this first chapter, I introduced the perspective that 'not being able to keep up with tidying might be an environmental issue, not a personality one.'
The key points are as follows:
Human behavior is strongly influenced by the environment (situational theory)
In affordance theory, the shape and placement of objects elicit unconscious actions
A messy house hides 'bad affordances'
People who are good at tidying up use 'well-designed spaces' to their advantage
Rather than effort, mechanisms that make things 'easy to put back' and 'not a hassle' change behavior
In the next chapter, we will explore how the 'affordances' actually present in our surroundings influence tidying and clutter—
I will delve deeper into tips to help you become aware of your 'unconscious actions.'
Chapter 2: The 'Spatial Temptations' and 'Unconscious Actions' Brought About by Affordances
The mystery of reaching out before you realize it
You were sitting on the sofa, and before you knew it, you had opened a bag of snacks on the nearby table.
As soon as you entered the entryway, you tossed your bag down right there.
'I didn't do it on purpose, but...'
Do you have any experiences that come to mind regarding these 'vague actions'?
Actually, this is exactly an example of how 'affordances' guide our behavior.
In this chapter, we will delve into the 'temptation of space' brought about by affordances, using concrete examples from daily life.
Unconscious actions are triggered by 'spatial hints'
As mentioned in the previous chapter, an affordance is 'the power of an object or environment to encourage a person to take a certain action.'
For example:
When something is placed on a table, you 'see it and end up touching it'
When you see a chair, you 'want to sit in it'
In a wide space, you 'want to place things'
These actions are not so much about the person's will or personality, but rather the result of reacting to the 'signs' emitted by the space.
In other words, we are often moved by the 'information' within a space.
The 'invisible guide lines' that clutter the living room
So, what kind of affordances in the home are creating our unconscious actions?
A common example is the problem of 'the living room table becoming a storage area.'
There are several reasons for this.
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A wide, flat surface is perceived as a 'place where it is okay to put things'
Horizontal surfaces like tables are designed as 'things to be used by placing something on them.'
Therefore, people end up placing 'things they were just holding' there.
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The living room is a passageway, a destination, and a place where you spend a lot of time
The living room, where the family gathers, is also a point where many items collect.
Mail, half-finished drinks, smartphones, and remote controls accumulate one after another.
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What was intended as a 'temporary spot' changes into a 'permanent spot'
Things you put down thinking, 'I'll tidy this up later...' end up becoming their 'fixed location.'
These chains of events act as a 'spatial guide' that unconsciously clutters the living room.
A 'house that doesn't stay tidy' has too many affordances
Conversely, a 'cluttered house' may have too many 'affordances that encourage too much action.'
Wide counter: Maximum ease of placement
Open shelves: A state where you can just shove things in and see them
Corners of the floor: If you put a basket there, you keep stacking things on top of it
These kinds of spaces combine elements such as 'no resistance to placing items,' 'visually feeling like it is empty,' and 'being in a position where you can reach it while doing something else.'
As a result, a vicious cycle is created: 'place it there for some reason -> it stays there -> it's a hassle to put it back -> you place more things there.'
Let's identify the 'temptation points' around you
Now, let's identify the 'affordance temptation points' in your home.
Examples:
Entrance: There is a space to put mail right after taking off your shoes
Dining table: It's easy to clutter because you can place things there immediately
Washroom: Cosmetics are cluttered in a small empty space
Sofa: Blankets, remote controls, snack wrappers...
What these places have in common is 'ease of placement' and 'visibility.'
In other words, places that are visible, easy to reach, and feel empty are likely to become temptation points.
Having the feeling of 'being questioned by the space'
There is a unique way of thinking when incorporating affordance theory into daily life.
That is,
'Thinking that you are being questioned by the space'
For example:
The table asks, 'Are you going to put something here?'
An empty shelf speaks to you, 'Are you going to use this space?'
Thinking this way allows you to see where you are being 'tempted'.
Just by having this perspective, you will start to notice subtle things like, "I feel like I might end up putting something here," or "This shelf height is a bit dangerous."
And those realizations lead to "proactive measures to prevent clutter."
“Tidy spaces” take advantage of affordances
A "home where tidying lasts" isn't so much about "reducing" affordances as it is about "taking advantage of them."
For example:
Storing remote controls upright → An affordance that "makes you want to put them away"
Limiting mail to a "mail tray that makes you want to put it in" → Prevents it from being placed in unnecessary spots
Keeping coffee tools together on a tray → Makes it easy to tidy them up all at once
These don't restrict your actions, but rather guide you to "want to take this action instead."
In other words, "even if people don't change, if the space becomes smarter, behavior changes naturally."
Small adjustments create big changes
After reading this far, some of you might be thinking, "My place is full of temptation points..." But please don't worry.
Affordances can be completely changed with "just a few small adjustments."
For example:
Placing flowers in the middle of the table → Reduces space to put things (psychological brake)
Clearly setting a bag storage area by the entrance → Prevents bags from invading the living room
Adding doors to living room shelves → Reduces visual stimulation
These small changes correct unconscious behavior, turning a "space that makes you want to reach out and clutter" into a "space that is easy to keep tidy."
Summary: Using "I did it without thinking" to your advantage
In this chapter, we have explained how affordances guide our "unconscious behavior."
To summarize the key points:
People unconsciously receive 'hints for action' from objects and spaces
Flat surfaces, empty spaces, and highly visible areas make you 'want to put things there'
Cluttered homes have too many temptation points
Noticing the 'questions' posed by a space is the first step to improving your tidying
By turning affordance to your advantage, you can transform your space into one where you 'want to put things back'
In the next chapter, we will further leverage this affordance and focus on visually appealing storage methods.
Is 'visible storage' easier to tidy up than 'hidden storage'?
Let's delve specifically into the psychological mechanisms and practical techniques behind this.
Chapter 3: Vision is Key! 'Visible Storage' and the Psychology of Affordance
Can people start taking action just by 'seeing' things?
When you hear 'visible storage,' many people might imagine stylish interiors or spaces like those in model rooms featured in magazines.
However, what we want to focus on here is the 'role of vision' as a 'power to encourage action = affordance,' rather than aesthetic beauty.
For example, have you ever had an experience like this?
After putting seasonings away in a drawer, you find yourself searching, 'Wait, where is it?' every time you cook.
Even though you 'tidied up' documents or stationery, you ended up not knowing where they were and left them out again.
Your child stopped using the toys you put away in the closet entirely.
The common thread here is that 'because visual information was blocked, action stopped.'
Conversely, if things are in a 'visible state,' we don't forget that they are there, and our hands move naturally.
In this chapter, let's decipher why 'visible storage' is powerful as an affordance, using psychology and real-life examples.
What is the role of 'vision' in affordance theory?
In affordance theory, it is said that 'the environment provides possibilities for action.'
For example:
When you see a doorknob, you think 'turn to open'
When you see stairs, you know you can 'climb up' or 'go down'
When you see a chair, you know you can 'sit'
All of these are classic examples of how 'visual information guides behavior.'
Conversely, without visual cues, it becomes difficult for us to take action.
In other words, 'hidden storage' has the potential to block the affordance of action.
Specific Example 1: 'Visible Storage' in the Bathroom
Before:
Stock items are packed tightly inside the cabinet under the sink. The hair dryer is stored on a shelf. Cosmetics are in the back of a drawer.
→ Every time, you have to crouch down or open doors, and putting things away is a hassle. As a result, leaving things out becomes the norm.
After:
Detergent stock is placed in transparent cases so the 'quantity is visible'
The hair dryer is hung on a wall hook
Cosmetics are categorized and lined up 'standing' on a steel rack
→ 'Picking up' and 'putting back' became easy, and a habit of not letting things get cluttered emerged naturally.
The key is to 'pre-install the visual hints necessary for action' into the space.
Specific Example 2: The 'Power of Visualization' in the Kitchen
A common kitchen issue is the problem of storing too much and losing track of what is where.
Before:
Seasonings are stored in a drawer → you have to take them out and put them back every time you look for them
Knives and frying pans are stacked → making them difficult to use
After:
Store frequently used seasonings on a wagon on the kitchen counter for visible storage
Store frying pans upright so they can be taken out one by one
Switch to a style where knives and cutting boards are hung on the wall
→ Since you can see at a glance 'where everything is,' both cooking and cleaning up become significantly easier.
Efficiency is everything in the kitchen.
That is why high visibility = high affordance directly leads to 'ease of tidying up.'
Specific Example 3: Reforming Children's Room Storage
In a child's room, the power of 'vision' is especially important.
Because children react more to visuals than language, simply showing them 'where things go back' visually will change their behavior.
Before:
Only one toy box. Everything is mixed together
Picture books are packed vertically on a shelf
→ Children play, but don't tidy up. This is because they 'don't know where to put things back'
After:
Prepare baskets for each category (cars, stuffed animals, blocks)
Use text + illustrations on labels (for visual understanding)
Store picture books in a rack so the 'covers are visible'
→ The place to put things back becomes clear, and children change to being able to tidy up by themselves
The idea of 'navigating with visuals' greatly boosts tidying ability.
Visible Storage vs. Hidden Storage: Which is better?
The idea that 'hiding things makes it look neater' certainly has some merit.
However, 'hidden storage' also has the following disadvantages:
Forgetting where you put things
Hard to take out → Don't use it → It becomes a dead item
Troublesome to put back → Ends up left out
On the other hand, 'visible storage' means:
Can be taken out immediately
The place to return it after use is visible
Can prevent clutter
In other words, for storage that 'keeps tidying up going,' it is important that 'ease of returning' is visually built in.
Common Question: Doesn't display storage look cluttered?
Here is a common question from readers:
'Doesn't display storage actually look cluttered if you have a lot of things?'
That is certainly true. That is why it is important to devise ways to reduce 'visual noise'.
Balance the colors (white, gray, wood grain, etc.)
Create a sense of unity with baskets or containers of the same shape
Limit the number of items displayed to 'things you use often'
'Looking organized' is also part of affordance. If it is too visible and becomes stressful, adjust it with 'semi-transparent' or 'labeled boxes'.
Beware of the 'pitfalls' of visible storage
There are also risks to visible storage. They are...
'Not noticed even if not returned' → 'Looks messy' → 'Visual stress accumulates'
To prevent this, it is important to create a mechanism where the motivation to 'want to keep it tidy because it is visible' works.
For example:
Tidy up only the 'visible areas' once a day before going to bed
Place only 'frequently used items' on visible shelves
Combine with hidden storage to organize visual information
Visible storage = the front line of affordance
Visible storage is an excellent navigator that sends a signal to our brains saying, 'Put it back here.'
From the perspective of affordance, 'showing' is 'guiding.'
In other words,visible = a mechanism that encourages tidying up!
Summary: Let's make the power of vision our ally
There is only one thing I wanted to convey in this chapter.
Human behavior changes significantly depending on 'whether it is visible or not.'
That is why:
Guide by showing frequently used items
Visually clarify where to return items
Design affordances while finding ways to avoid clutter
In the next chapter, we will use affordance theory to decipher the risks and utilization methods of 'hidden storage.'
Let's think about how to balance 'looking neat' with 'encouraging action.'
Chapter 4: For those who want to look neat: The pitfalls and how to make the most of 'hidden storage'
If it's not visible, does it 'not exist'? What is the brain's blind spot?
When we think about tidying up, the first thing that might come to mind is 'hiding' things.
Stuffing everything into the closet
Store in a cabinet with doors
Put in a box with a lid
By doing this, the room looks neatly tidied up at first glance.
However, that storage method might actually be raising the 'barrier to action'.
From the perspective of affordance theory, the act of 'hiding' can block visual cues and become a factor that reduces the triggers for 'putting back' or 'using' items.
The human brain quickly forgets 'things that are not visible.' In psychology, this is called the principle of visibility, and it is also applied to UI and product design.
Storage is the same. Things that are not visible are 'as good as non-existent'.
Therefore, hidden storage has a high risk of being 'forgotten while stored' unless carefully designed.
Specific Example 1: The 'Black Box' Effect in Closets
Before:
Stuffing out-of-season clothes, bags, and unused items into the back for now
The room looks tidy once the doors are closed
→ Result: Forgetting what was put where. It's a hassle to take things out. Ending up wearing the same clothes all the time.
After:
Organizing storage by season (Spring/Summer, Autumn/Winter)
Categorizing with labels and switching to 'semi-transparent' cases where the contents are visible
Placing low-frequency items on the top shelf or in the back, and high-frequency items at eye level
→ Result: Items I want to use are easier to find, and unnecessary extra purchases have decreased.
The point is to leave 'visual hints' even when 'hiding' things.
Specific Example 2: Reviewing Living Room Shelf Storage
Before:
Store magazines, documents, toys, etc., together in large boxes with lids
It looks neat! ...but you have to open everything when looking for something
→ Result: The problem of leaving things out and not putting them back recurs
After:
Move only frequently used items to open shelves
Limit boxes with lids to items with 'low usage frequency'
Attach labels or transparent windows so you can see the contents at a glance
→ Result: 'Where did I put this?' drops significantly, and the whole family starts tidying up naturally
In other words, the balance between 'hiding' and 'showing' is important.
The psychology of 'out of sight, out of mind' and items becoming 'unused'
The biggest reason why hidden storage doesn't work well is the human trait that 'when something disappears from view, it also disappears from memory.'
In psychology, this is called the 'principle of visibility' or 'memory dilution.'
For example:
Condiments put in the back of the fridge are forgotten and expire
Stationery put in a back drawer is forgotten and bought anew
Bags or hats that aren't used are only remembered after the season ends
These things that are 'not used but exist' are all caused by 'hiding them.'
Hiding them makes things look tidy, but not using them leads to the hoarding of items.
The benefits of hidden storage and how to use it through affordance
Of course, "hidden storage = bad" is not necessarily true.
To utilize hidden storage in terms of affordance:
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Place "hints that remind you of the contents" on the outside
Apply labels, attach photos, or categorize by color
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Place storage in "locations directly linked to actions"
Stationery right under the desk, first-aid kits on a shelf next to the living room, etc.
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Decide storage locations based on "frequency of use"
Use immediately -> at hand; Use occasionally -> on a shelf; Rarely use -> in the back or on a high shelf
This establishes storage that is "hidden but easy to use."
Specific Example 3: Zoning for Entrance Storage
Before:
Put umbrellas, shoes, cleaning supplies, tools, etc., all together in the shoe closet
When you open the door, it's a mess, and you don't know what is where
-> Result: It's a hassle to take things out -> It gets cluttered
After:
Put umbrellas in an umbrella stand outside
Hang cleaning supplies on the back of the door using magnetic hooks
Categorize tools in transparent cases and apply labels
-> Result: You can find what you need immediately, creating an environment where you "want to put things back" rather than "have to tidy up"
The point is to place items "near where they are used" and in a "visually organized state."
What is the optimal balance between "hiding" and "showing"?
It is smooth to think using these criteria:
High frequency of use = visible storage
Low frequency of use = Hidden storage
Shared by the family = Design it to be visible so there is no confusion
Furthermore, even with hidden storage, by leaving 'affordance-based visual cues,' you can prevent items from being 'forgotten while put away.'
Q&A: Answering Readers' Questions
Q: 'I want to make hidden storage stylish and easy to use, but how?'
→ A: Unifying colors, shapes, and materials reduces 'visual noise.' → Furthermore, classifying the inside of shelves and drawers with 'visible dividers' makes them significantly easier to use.
Q: 'My family puts things away on their own, and then I don't know where they are...'
→ A: Create a system where everyone knows not 'where it was put,' but 'where it should be returned.' → Use labels, transparent cases, and shared rules to devise 'visual navigation.'
Summary: Hiding is not the same as 'tucking away'
From an affordance perspective, 'hidden storage' is also about 'hiding things in a way that does not hinder action.'
Key points of this chapter:
When things are hidden, they easily disappear from memory (a characteristic of the brain)
Hidden storage requires 'visual hints'
Design storage locations in accordance with action flow and frequency of use
In the next chapter, we will delve deeper into how to utilize affordances for each space, such as the living room, kitchen, entryway, and children's room, under the title 'Affordance Design Techniques by Location.'
Chapter 5: Change it for each room! Affordance design techniques by space
The trick is to change 'affordance design' depending on the location
To create a home where tidying up continues, it is essential to have the perspective of 'what kind of actions do I want to naturally trigger in which room,' not just 'what to put where and how.'
The concept of affordance exerts its maximum power when you change the design according to the purpose of the space.
In this chapter, we will introduce specific storage and layout ideas that utilize affordances for each major space, such as the 'living room,' 'kitchen,' 'entryway,' 'children's room,' 'bedroom,' and 'washroom.'
Living Room Edition: Creating Systems That Make It Easy for the Family to Tidy Up
The living room is a space where the whole family gathers and is used for 'multi-purpose' activities such as relaxing, eating, watching TV, and reading.
That is precisely why an affordance design that allows anyone to naturally 'take out, use, and put back' items is the key.
Specific Example 1: 'Visualizing' the designated spot for remote controls
Remote controls often end up under the sofa or between cushions → Place a transparent acrylic case next to the table. Set the 'return spot' in a 'visible location'.
Specific Example 2: 'Storing upright' for documents that tend to clutter
Direct mail, school handouts, and bills scattered on the table → Afford by using a file stand + genre-specific labels (e.g., 'School', 'Payment', 'Temporary Storage').
Specific Example 3: Storing blankets in a basket
Blankets tend to be left draped over the sofa → Place a large basket next to the sofa to visually designate a 'place to return them'.
→ Result: The action of putting things back is completed 'without hesitation' and in 'one action'.
Kitchen Edition: Redesigning Storage Along Action Flow Lines
The kitchen is a place where 'a series of multiple processes called cooking' occurs. Being visually organized is not enough.
The most important thing is 'not to stop the flow'.
Specific Example 1: 'Arranged storage' for seasonings to signal usage frequency
Salt, sugar, soy sauce, mirin, etc., are arranged from left to right in order of frequency → Map the order in which your hands move unconsciously directly into the space.
Specific Example 2: 'Hanging storage' for kitchen tools for immediate access
Items like spatulas and ladles that were in drawers are hung on a magnetic bar → See and judge -> reach out -> put back immediately = zero stress in action.
Specific Example 3: Placing trash cans at the 'intersection of flow lines'
Place them in locations where flow lines concentrate, such as near the stove and between sinks → The naturalness of the 'discarding' action increases significantly.
→ Result: Kitchen work efficiency improves, and leaving things out decreases.
Entrance Edition: The Dual Effect of First Impressions + Behavioral Guidance
The entrance is the first space you see when you enter the house. If it's cluttered, it psychologically gives the impression of a 'messy life'.
At the same time, it is a space with high traffic, meaning the affordance effect is easy to utilize.
Specific Example 1: Separate shoes into 'first-string' and 'second-string'
Shoes you wear every day go on an open shelf, while shoes you wear occasionally go to the back of the closet → Frequency is directly linked to ease of action
Specific Example 2: Place the key holder at 'eye level'
Install a hook next to the front door. 'Hang it up when you get home' becomes a habit → Just by visually indicating a 'fixed position,' you develop the habit of putting things back
Specific Example 3: Group umbrellas, masks, and alcohol along the flow of movement
→ By embedding 'mechanisms to ensure you don't forget before leaving' into the space, actions become automated
→ Result: Entering and exiting becomes smooth, and a habit of 'not letting the entrance get cluttered' is born
Children's Room Edition: Creating a room where they 'want to put things back' using a combination of visuals and categorization
For children, visual information is much easier to understand and leads to action more effectively than words.
That is why a 'visual + behavioral flow' set is essential in affordance design.
Specific Example 1: Toy baskets by category + illustrated labels
→ Sort 'cars,' 'dolls,' 'blocks,' etc., using color-coding and picture labels → Even if a child cannot read, they 'know where to put things back'
Specific Example 2: 'One-action storage' for school bags and textbook racks
→ Just place the school bag on the floor → Textbooks go into the vertical file next to it → Design that reduces the feeling that 'tidying up is a hassle'
Specific Example 3: Use 'baskets instead of drawers' for clothes
→ Opening and closing drawers is a hassle → With baskets for different types of clothing, it's easy to 'see, take, and put back'
→ Result: A space where 'putting things back after use' is 'not a hassle'
Bedroom Edition: Design for Relaxation and 'Reducing Unnecessary Stimuli'
In the bedroom, it is important to use affordance design that 'prevents unnecessary actions' rather than 'inducing actions'.
Specific Example 1: Intentionally placing your smartphone far away
→ If your phone is by your pillow, you end up on social media or watching videos, leading to late nights. → Create a 'fixed spot' out of reach from your bed to change your behavior.
Specific Example 2: Limit your reading bookshelf to 3 books
→ Narrow it down to 3 books: 'currently reading,' 'want to read,' and 'reading today.' → This reduces the stress of choosing and makes habit formation smoother.
Specific Example 3: Place a basket for clothes and pajamas next to the bed
→ Reduce the 'where did I put it?' factor. → Smooth actions lead to comfortable sleep.
→ Result: Unnecessary stimuli are reduced, and the bedroom's role is focused on 'rest'.
Washroom/Dressing Room Edition: Design That Doesn't Interrupt the Flow of Movement
This is a place with many sequential tasks, such as 'wash, dry, dress, put in laundry'.
In terms of affordance, 'storage design that doesn't stop the flow' is important.
Specific Example 1: Keep bath towels and underwear within arm's reach
→ Reduce the stress of searching while wet. → Open shelves + basket storage are ideal.
Specific Example 2: Prepare 2-3 laundry baskets by category
→ Sort items like 'colors,' 'whites,' and 'towels' as you put them away. → Eliminate the need for brain power, making actions easier.
Specific Example 3: Use 'hanging storage' for toothbrushes and cups for cleanliness and visual clarity
→ Reduce water droplets from cups and forgotten toothbrush placement.
→ Result: Daily habits become 'stress-free'.
Summary: 'Design each space so that habits continue naturally'
In this chapter, we introduced the concept of affordance tailored to each room and provided concrete practical examples.
No matter how stylish or high-capacity your storage is, 'storage that doesn't encourage action' will not last.
That is why:
Combining behavioral flow with visual cues
Clarifying the purpose of each space
Designing according to who uses it (adults or children)
In the next chapter, we will focus on 'systems that are easy for the whole family to use and maintain,' and delve deeper into affordance improvements in 'shared spaces'.
Chapter 6: Making the Whole Family Want to Tidy Up Naturally! Affordance Design for Shared Spaces
To ensure tidying up isn't just an 'individual effort'
The biggest reason why tidying up doesn't last in a home might be that the system relies on 'only one person trying hard'.
'Why am I the only one tidying up?'
'I get frustrated because the kids or my partner leave things out...'
You often hear these complaints, don't you? Actually, this is not a problem of 'motivation' or 'personality,' but a problem of the system.
Homes where the whole family can tidy up naturally are equipped with 'systems that make it inevitable = affordances'.
In this chapter, we will introduce mechanisms that make anyone want to tidy up naturally in 'family shared spaces'—such as the living room, dining room, washroom, and entryway—along with concrete examples.
Shared spaces need systems that are 'understandable to everyone' and 'allow for immediate action'
In places shared by the family, the following two points are especially important:
① Even if the user changes, they can use it without hesitation
② A structure where it becomes the 'correct way' no matter who tidies up
In other words, to prevent questions like 'Where do I put this?' or 'I used it, but I don't know where to put it back,' the space itself needs to 'teach you how to tidy up'.
Specific Example 1: Use 'One-Action Storage' for Shared Living Room Items
Before:
TV remotes, stationery, snacks, nail clippers, etc., are scattered on the table
There is a storage space, but it has a door and is a hassle to open
→ Result: Items are left out instead of being put away → A source of frustration
After:
Store remotes upright in an 'open basket.' It takes one second to put them back
Store stationery in a 'partitioned drawer where they stand upright.' You can see the contents at a glance
Keep nail clippers, thermometers, and common medicines together in a 'box with a handle' on a shelf
→ Anyone can easily 'use and return' items immediately
Point: By lowering the 'difficulty' of storage, actions naturally become consistent
Specific Example 2: 'Clearly Partition' the Shared Bathroom Zone
Before:
Toothbrushes and facial cleansers are mixed up, and it's unclear whose is whose
The designated spot for towels is vague, leading to searching around with wet hands
→ Result: It's a hassle to put things back after use → It gets cluttered
After:
Distinguish each family member's items with 'color-coded cups'
Apply 'name labels' to the toothbrush stand
Set out 'one towel per person,' and once used, put it directly into the laundry basket
→ Every family member can 'visually recognize' their belongings and act unconsciously
Specific Example 3: Affordance to prevent 'forgetting to take things' at the entrance
Before:
Children leave forgetting their hats or masks
My partner searches for their keys every time, asking 'Where are they?'
→ Rushing around every time we go out
After:
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Create an 'out-the-door set' zone next to the entrance door
Hang masks, hats, and handkerchiefs on a board with hooks
Keep keys and wallets permanently in a 'floating accessory tray'
→ Changing behavior with a system where 'you don't forget because you see it'
Affordance is also effective for 'preventing forgetfulness'!
Specific Example 4: Designing children's toy storage for 'play ⇄ put back'
Before:
Children spread out toys to play but don't tidy up
They don't know where to put them back, or the parent ends up tidying up
→ Result: Parental stress and the child's perception that 'tidying up = a hassle'
After:
Sort toys into 'baskets with color + picture labels' by category
Place storage 'right next to the play area'
Pull out the whole basket to play, and when finished, just 'toss them back in'
→ Even children can complete the 'play ⇄ tidy up' flow all by themselves!
Specific Example 5: Create a system for shared stationery and documents that 'anyone can navigate without confusion'
Before:
Documents are scattered across family members' desks
'Items used occasionally,' such as scissors and batteries, tend to go missing
After:
Shared items are 'centrally managed in one place' + 'labeled by category'
Stationery drawers are 'divided with organizers' and arranged by frequency of use
Documents are placed in clear folders and sorted by 'Bills,' 'School,' 'Hospital,' etc.
→ Because you can 'see and understand' where everything is, any family member can access it
Break free from 'storage that only Mom understands'!
'Labels' and 'color-coding' are the ultimate signs for shared storage
In shared spaces, the key to affordance is 'visual signs' = labels, colors, and shapes.
Labels indicate 'what is here'
Color-coding intuitively conveys 'whose it is' or 'what it is for'
Shapes encourage 'how to put it back' (e.g., standing it up or stacking it)
When these are in place, the space becomes a 'guide for action' without needing words.
Affordance storage helps with 'habit formation'
Even if family members are initially confused by new storage, in an affordance-designed space, things like 'I found myself putting it back' or 'I remembered it automatically' will happen.
In other words:
There are visual signs
Put in and take out with a single action
Located right next to where it is used
When these three points are met, a system is completed where you 'end up putting things back' instead of 'having to do it'.
Summary: Aiming for a 'space where the whole family wants to tidy up'
What is important in tidying up shared spaces is creating a system where 'whoever tidies up, it's the right way' and 'actions naturally align'.
Key points of this chapter:
Prioritize 'a system anyone can understand' over individual motivation
Navigation through visual signs (labels, color-coding)
Storage that is easy to return to = storage that keeps tidying up going
In the next chapter, while utilizing affordance, I will specifically introduce how to create a 'habit-forming' tidying routine.
Chapter 7: Routine-building techniques for 'tidying habits' using Affordance Theory
'Habit formation' is the key to successful tidying
One of the reasons why tidying doesn't last is that 'even if you have motivation at first, it returns to the original state before you know it'.
This is deeply related to the mechanism of the human brain.
Habits are unconscious behavioral patterns.
They are easier to continue because you can act without relying on willpower.
Affordance theory strongly supports this habit formation by creating 'mechanisms' where the environment naturally encourages action.
3-step routine for tidying habits
The recommended flow for promoting habit formation is,
Notice (recognizing 'things that should be returned' through visual signs)
Return (a system that allows returning with a single action)
Continue (incorporating into a daily rhythm that makes it easy to continue the action)
It is.
Affordance is particularly involved in parts 1 and 2.
Specific Example 1: Establishing a 'Return Habit' for Kitchen Seasonings
Before:
Even after finishing with seasoning bottles or spices, they are often left on the table or sink.
It's a hassle to look for them, so I end up buying new ones.
After:
Line up frequently used seasonings on a visible shelf next to the stove with labels.
To ensure they are 'returned immediately after use,' install a tray with indentations that match the shape and location of the bottles.
Tell the family, 'Return them here,' and guide them with a system that is visually intuitive.
Effect:
The action of returning seasonings the moment you finish using them becomes smooth.
Leaving things out and overbuying are reduced, lessening housework stress.
Specific Example 2: Living Room Small Item Tidying Routine
Place a 'one-action storage box' next to the table for small items that easily clutter, such as TV remotes, game controllers, and newspapers/magazines.
Share a simple rule with the family: 'Just put it in the box' when finished using it.
Set a time once a week to simply organize the contents of the box as 'family time.'
By doing this, 'leaving things out -> cluttering' naturally changes to 'returning -> tidying up.'
Specific Example 3: Children's Toy Tidying Habit
Store children's toys so that 'playing' and 'tidying up' become a single set.
For example, place toy boxes categorized by color or picture right next to the play area, making the action as simple as 'just throwing them into the box' when finished playing.
Instead of saying 'Go tidy up,' parents should focus on creating an environment that is easy to tidy and praising the child once they have finished.
With this method, children naturally develop the habit of tidying up on their own.
What is the 'Reset Wall' that hinders the habit of tidying up?
Many people face the 'Reset Wall.'
In other words,
When a room is severely cluttered, the hurdle to start tidying up becomes very high.
It takes both time and effort to reset it once.
From the perspective of affordance theory, lowering the 'hurdle for action' is the first step toward habituation.
Specific Example 4: A 'Start Small' Reset Plan
Since it is difficult to do everything at once, narrow down the target, such as 'just the desk today' or 'just the toy box today.'
Prepare 'labels or dividers for where things go' within sight of the tidying area to make the action of returning items easier.
Create a 5-minute 'tidying time' every day to reset things little by little.
This reduces the feeling of 'it's hard → I hate it,' making it easier to continue the action.
Tips for maintaining motivation
Take before-and-after photos: Comparing the cluttered state with the tidy state makes it easier to feel a sense of accomplishment.
Find a tidying buddy: Report on social media or set goals with your family.
Set rewards: For example, 'buy your favorite sweets if you keep it up for a week'—positive motivation is also effective.
A 'system to not forget' created with affordance
Visualizing 'where things go' is the most important thing.
For example, install hooks or small containers to designate a place for 'hats, keys, and masks' in the entryway, and create a flow where you return them immediately after use.
Organize documents and stationery by labeling and color-coding so you know exactly where everything is.
These cues prompt 'awareness' and unconsciously encourage action.
Summary: Establish tidying habits through environment design and daily routines.
Tidying up cannot be sustained by 'motivation' alone. Affordance design, where the environment naturally encourages action, is essential.
Visual signs and mechanisms that simplify actions promote the 'act of putting things back,' leading to habit formation.
The secret to keeping it up is to start small and incorporate it into your daily routine without strain.
Chapter 8: Overcoming Psychological Barriers! The Science of 'Motivation' and 'Staying Power' in Tidying Up
Why can't you keep tidying up? Understanding psychological barriers
Have you ever started tidying up only to lose your motivation right away?
This is not just due to 'waves of motivation,' but because psychological barriers exist.
In psychology, the following factors are cited as obstacles to action.
Cognitive load (stress from overthinking)
Perfectionism
Low self-efficacy (the feeling that you can't do it)
Emotional resistance (e.g., being unable to throw away items with sentimental value)
These factors combine to hinder the continuation of tidying up.
Ways to reduce cognitive load
When you start tidying up, do you ever feel like you 'don't know where to start' or that 'everything is bothering you'?
This is cognitive load.
[Specific Example 1] 'Task Breakdown'
'Today, I will only tidy up the living room table.'
'For clothes, I will first separate only the ones I don't wear.'
Breaking down large tasks into smaller ones reduces the mental burden and makes it easier to take action.
[Specific Example 2] 'Utilizing a To-Do List'
Write down a 'to-do list' on paper or your smartphone, and cross things off as you finish them.
You get a visual sense that 'tidying is progressing,' which helps maintain motivation.
The Trap of Perfectionism and How to Deal With It
If you have a strong desire for perfection, thinking 'I have to clean everything,' you may find yourself unable to start.
[Specific Example] 'The 80% Rule'
Instead of aiming for 100% perfection, consider 80% achievement to be okay.
For example, 'organize only 50% of the closet' or 'tidy up half of the cluttered desk first.'
This prevents the negative spiral of 'I'll stop because it's not perfect.'
Approaches to Increase Self-Efficacy
Self-efficacy is the confidence that 'I can do it.' If this is low, it is easy to give up, thinking 'it won't last even if I tidy up anyway.'
[Specific Example 1] 'Accumulate Small Success Experiences'
For example, try organizing just one drawer.
That sense of achievement fosters the feeling that 'I can do it too.'
[Specific Example 2] 'Get Support from Those Around You'
Tidy up together with family or friends.
Helping and encouraging each other strengthens self-efficacy.
The True Nature of Emotional Resistance and How to Overcome It
Everyone has items they feel resistant to throwing away, such as mementos or gifts.
[Specific Example 1] 'Create a Memory Box'
Even if you can't keep everything, carefully select 'only the important things' and put them in a small box.
Taking photos of the rest and saving them digitally is also an effective method.
[Specific Example 2] 'Let Go with Gratitude'
It is said that saying 'thank you' in your heart while letting go reduces the psychological burden.
Ways to Reduce Psychological Barriers with Affordance
By organizing your environment, psychological barriers are significantly reduced.
[Specific Example 1] 'No Hesitation with Visible Storage'
By making storage locations clearly visible, you reduce the hesitation of 'where should I put this back?'
[Specific Example 2] 'Make the Action of Returning Easy'
For example, if you make it okay to just roughly put things into baskets or boxes, you reduce the effort and resistance.
Synergistic Effects with 'Small Habits' That Support the Power to Continue
Accumulating what behavioral economics calls 'small wins' is effective for sustaining motivation.
[Specific Example]
Every morning, tidy up just one spot on your desk.
Even just lining up your shoes before going to bed at night builds up a sense of accomplishment.
By repeating this daily, the belief that 'tidying up is hard' changes into 'tidying up is a natural action'.
Summary: Overcoming Psychological Walls from Both Environmental and Mental Perspectives
The reason motivation for tidying up doesn't last is due to psychological barriers.
Those walls are diverse, including 'cognitive load,' 'perfectionism,' 'low self-efficacy,' and 'emotional resistance.'
In terms of the environment, utilize affordance design to make actions easier to perform.
In terms of psychology, it is effective to break down tasks, increase self-efficacy, and accumulate small successful experiences.
This dual-sided approach is the key to continuing to tidy up without strain.
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Chapter 9: Achieved Through Affordance Theory! The Secrets to Sustainable Systems and Habits Taught by Tidying Professionals
What is the difference between 'people who keep tidying' and 'people who don't'?
People who succeed at tidying up don't just 'like to tidy up.' What they possess is environmental design and habit systems to keep them tidying.
Affordance theory serves as the foundation for that design.
In other words, the trick to continuing is to create a system from the perspective that 'the environment naturally encourages action.'
How to create a system that lasts
Concrete Example 1: 'Clarifying return locations' to prevent leaving things out
If the place to return an item after use is ambiguous, it becomes a cause of clutter.
Therefore, introduce labels or color-coding so that you can see at a glance where to return things.
For example, categorize children's toy boxes by color and attach labels with photos.
As a result, because you can return items without hesitation after use, a habit of tidying up naturally forms.
'Habit-forming' techniques for sustainability
Habit-forming means aiming for a 'state where you can act unconsciously.'
Affordance design supports this.
Concrete Example 2: Storage design along the flow of movement
Storage placement that makes the actions of 'coming home -> hanging up a coat -> putting down a bag' smooth at the entrance.
Place towels and toothbrushes in the washroom so they are easy to use and can be returned immediately after use.
The comfort of this flow of movement promotes habituation and leads to 'tidying up no longer being painful.'
The secret to keeping it up is to 'lower the hurdle for action'
People tend to avoid actions that feel 'troublesome' or 'tiring.'
That is why the environment needs to make those actions easier for you.
Specific Example 3: One-Action Storage
Place a basket next to the table where you can just 'drop' the remote when you're done using it.
Use basket storage for toys where you can just 'toss them in.'
This one-action approach powerfully supports habit formation.
Creating 'rules' and 'sharing' to keep it up
Sharing tidying rules with family or housemates makes it easier to maintain an environment that is easy to tidy.
Specific Example 4: Storage rules decided in a family meeting
Decide on rules with the family, such as 'remotes go here,' 'shoes go here,' and 'mail goes here.'
Visualize the rules with signs or labels.
This makes it easier for everyone in the family to take the same action.
Support tools for the power to keep going
You can also use technology to find ways to keep tidying up.
Specific Example 5: Utilizing reminders
Set up 'weekend tidying time' or '10 minutes of tidying every day' using smartphone reminders.
Manage storage photos with an app to record 'where to put what.'
These digital tools lower the psychological hurdle and help you keep going.
Psychological tips for keeping it up
Don't seek 'perfection' in tidying; consider 80% completion to be okay.
Motivation is sustained by accumulating small senses of achievement.
Incorporate 'putting things back immediately when they get cluttered' into your daily routine.
These work perfectly with systems built using affordance theory.
Introduction of real-life examples from people who keep it up
Case 1: Kitchen storage techniques for working moms
In the midst of a busy daily life, place only the items you use in visible locations.
Teach the family the habit of returning items to a 'designated tray' as soon as cooking is finished.
Since it is easy for the family to use, everyone naturally participates in tidying up.
Case 2: Organizing the desk area for a student living alone
Arrange shelves for textbooks and notebooks based on frequency of use.
Keep only the bare minimum of stationery on the desk and store it immediately after use.
Take photos periodically and share the progress of organization with friends on social media.
The most important thing for a sustainable system is that it 'blends into daily life'
Do not force yourself; incorporate tidying into the flow of your life.
Affordance is the foundation for creating that environment and strengthens the power to continue.
Summary
To continue tidying up, understanding and practicing 'affordance theory,' where the environment guides behavior, is the key.
Lowering the hurdles for action and designing storage that is visually easy to understand is important.
Share rules with family or housemates and create habits to keep it going.
Utilize technology as well to overcome psychological barriers.
Using the specific examples introduced in this chapter as a reference, please try incorporating a 'system for continuing' that suits your own life.
Chapter 10: Summary and Next Steps — The Final Guide to Building a Home Where Tidying Lasts
Looking Back: The Changes Brought About by Affordance Theory
Through this article, we have learned about psychological approaches to creating a 'home where tidying lasts,' specifically how to utilize 'affordance theory'.
The reason tidying doesn't last is not a problem of personality or motivation, but largely due to environmental design.
Affordance theory refers to a 'mechanism where the environment naturally encourages action'.
With visible storage, easy-to-return storage, and improvements to shared spaces, anyone can make tidying easier.
Psychological barriers and fluctuations in motivation can also be overcome through environmental design and habit formation.
It is important that the system you build for continuing blends into your daily life and can be maintained without strain.
Purpose of the Final Chapter: Presenting Concrete Steps to 'Take Action'
No matter how much knowledge you have, it is meaningless if you do not put it into practice. Here, I will share practical steps you can start today and tips for long-term maintenance, including specific examples.
Concrete Step 1: 'Tidy Up From Visible Places'
Specific Example: Around the Living Room Table
Start by tidying up places where clutter is noticeable, such as the top of the table.
Decide on a 'place to return used items' and set up labels or baskets.
For example, use a dedicated case where remote controls can stand upright, and a box with dividers for stationery.
Effect:
Motivation increases because you can see the results immediately.
Small successful experiences lead to the next action.
Concrete Step 2: 'Create a 5-Minute Daily Tidying Time'
Concrete Example: 5 Minutes in the Morning
A habit of spending 5 minutes before getting ready in the morning to align shoes in the entryway or organize the inside of your bag.
It is also recommended to set aside time to tidy up your desk before going to bed at night.
Effect:
Easy to incorporate into your daily routine and easy to turn into a habit.
Small, consistent efforts prevent the room from becoming cluttered.
Concrete Step 3: "Create Rules Together with Your Family"
Concrete Example: Weekend Family Meeting
Set aside time for the family to decide on 'designated spots for items' and 'rules for putting things back.'
Enjoy labeling and choosing storage goods together as a group.
Effect:
Having the whole family participate creates a sense of responsibility and makes it easier to cooperate.
Sharing the rules reduces the issue of 'who is going to tidy up?'
Concrete Step 4: "Don't Panic If You Fail; Just Keep Resetting"
Concrete Example: Once-a-Month Reset Day
Even if there are days when you feel you couldn't tidy up, don't panic; set aside one day a month as a dedicated reset day.
For example, set a specific time on the weekend to organize and tidy up the entire house.
Effect:
A reset refreshes your mindset and helps maintain motivation to continue tidying up.
Concrete Step 5: "Create Storage That Fits Your Lifestyle"
Concrete Example: Storage Tailored to Hobbies and Work
Store hobby tools and work materials by considering 'where they are used,' 'frequency,' and 'ease of access.'
For example, if you enjoy crafts, keep your materials in visible storage near your workspace.
Effect:
An environment that can be used without stress naturally encourages tidying up.
Mindset for Long-Term Success
Avoid 'perfectionism.' Aim for 80% completion.
Think of tidying as 'part of daily life'—make it a daily habit rather than a special event.
Sharing your progress with someone or encouraging each other makes it easier to keep going.
Learning from Failure: What Not to Do
Being satisfied with just buying more storage goods while neglecting to build a system.
Making excuses like 'I don't have time to tidy' and procrastinating.
Trying to do it all alone instead of getting help from family.
Everyone experiences these failures, but by learning from them, you can definitely move forward.
Conclusion: Tidying is the 'First Step to Changing Your Life'
Tidying is not just cleaning or organizing; it is an action that improves your quality of life. By utilizing affordance theory to create an environment and habits that suit you and your family, tidying will continue naturally, and you will achieve a life with less stress.
Please try the concrete steps introduced today and transform your home into a 'house where tidying lasts'!