The real reason behind 'not being able to like myself'.
🌸 Have you ever felt this way, too?
Why do I worry so much?
Even when things are going well, I feel like my heart is being left behind.
I can't stop the tears just from speaking my true feelings.
In a moment when you suddenly stop.
Deep in your chest, carrying a small pain
that you've never shown anyone,
to you, who has worked so hard until today.
Perhaps right now,
you don't know what you're suited for
you want to make your passion your career, but you lack confidence
you want to start something, but don't know how to move forward
you might be holding onto
a small restlessness that feels like impatience.
But, it's okay.
You haven't done anything wrong at all.
That is surely a sign that the 'true you'
is about to wake up.
✨ The real reason you 'cannot like yourself'
I, too, could not like myself for a long time.
No matter how hard I tried, no matter how many results I achieved,
somewhere in my heart, I kept blaming myself, thinking 'it's still not enough'.
Pretending to be good at fitting in with those around me,
there were days when I was actually scared, anxious, and wanted to cry
so much I couldn't help it.
For me back then, 'liking myself'
felt like a dream, something that felt like someone else's business.
But, at one point, I realized.
It wasn't that I couldn't like myself,
but that I had forbidden myself from liking who I am.
A 'me' like this is still no good
If I work hard, then it's okay to like myself
Only when I am recognized by someone will I finally be forgiven
Because I had always looked at myself with that kind of conditional love.
It is said that people with HSP traits have a
particularly strong tendency toward this.
Because they are sensitive, they observe their surroundings closely,
and in trying to meet expectations,
they end up leaving their true feelings
behind somewhere.
And that abandoned heart,
quietly nurtures the misunderstanding that
'I am no good'.
🍀 You are already a being worthy of love
No matter who you are,
no matter what you look like,
you are truly worthy of being loved.
Only by embracing the 'no good me' and the 'me who can't do things well' entirely,
can you truly begin to 'like yourself' in the real sense.
But there is no need to force yourself to be positive.
First, look at the pain of 'not being able to like myself' that you feel right now,
without denying it.
Gently listen to the unspoken feelings
that lie deep within.
That is all you need to do.
That is the beginning of healing.
🌿 The 'reason you cannot like yourself' from a spiritual perspective
[Mayan Calendar]shows that your soul has
a 'role to fulfill in this life'.
It is not for the sake of someone else,
not to be evaluated by others,
but to remember 'how you want to live' yourself.
[Numerology]reveals a
'soul blueprint'etched into your birth date.
The qualities that are yours alone, and the flow you should follow.
These are not things to compare with others, but your own unique treasures.
[Oracle Cards]quietly illuminate
the message you need right now.
Not by saying 'do this,' but
to help you find 'the light that is already within you.'
In other words,
🌸 You already possess both a reason to live and a reason to be loved.
🌸 It is just that you have not realized it yet yourself.
A spiritual perspective helps you gently affirm your own existence
without blaming yourself.
✨ The 'path to liking myself' that I discovered
I myself encountered Mayan astrology, numerology, and
card reading, learned the blueprint of my soul,
remembered the gift of sensitivity,
and came to accept even the pain of the past
as a necessary experience,
little by little, truly little by little,
I became able to like myself.
It was not a miracle that happened overnight.
'I was able to cherish myself a little bit today too'
Beyond such small accumulations,
before I knew it, the capacity to smile at myself
had been born.
That is why I want to tell you, too.
You will surely be okay, too.
Even if you are currently in a whirlpool of self-denial,
there is always, beyond those clouds,
a light that is uniquely yours.
🌸 The first step is to 'know'
You don't have to try to change.
You don't have to force yourself to be cheerful.
Just quietly 'know'.
What kind of temperament do I have?
What mission was my soul born with?
What kind of flow am I in right now?
Just by doing that, your heart will feel a little lighter.
🌿 Information on the '5-Day Session to Return to Myself'
The [5-Day Session to Return to Myself] that I offer is
a 'support system to reunite with your true self,' combining Mayan astrology, numerology, and card reading.
I will not try to force you to change.
I will not make you push yourself, either.
I simply help you gently discover the small light that already exists within you.
I will not make you push yourself.
I simply help you gently discover the small light that already exists within you.
together.
🌸 So that you can learn to love yourself.
If your heart feels a gentle stir,
why not take these 5 days to quietly
spend time facing yourself?
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I created a picture book for everyone who wants to like themselves and for everyone who wants to accept themselves just as they are.
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