HSS-type HSPs 'cannot narrow it down to one.' 3 ways to escape from being lost about what you want to do
"I have too many things I want to do and can't decide..."
"I'm interested, but I get bored quickly..."
"In the end, I don't know what I want to do..."
Are you worried about "not being able to decide what you want to do" like this?
Especially for HSS-type HSPs,
they are full of curiosity and want to do this and that
they are good at starting things, but bad at continuing them
they think too deeply and cannot make decisions
Because they have these traits, they sometimes feel down, thinking "I'm no good..." because they can't decide what they want to do.
But please rest assured.
Actually, not being able to decide what you want to do is proof of your talent!
Today, as a "prescription for when you are lost about what you want to do," I will share 3 ways for HSS-type HSPs to move forward without getting lost.
2. Reasons why HSS-type HSPs get lost about "what they want to do"
Why do HSS-type HSPs tend to worry about "not knowing what they want to do"?
There are three reasons specific to HSS-type HSPs for this.
① Too much curiosity → Wide range of interests
HSS-type HSPs have the characteristic of "jumping on something as soon as they think it looks interesting!".
That is precisely why they get interested in one new thing after another and cannot narrow it down to one.
② Temperament of seeking stimulation → Seeks change, but gets bored easily
While they get excited about new things, they also have a tendency to "suddenly lose interest once they think they understand it!".
Therefore, they tend to blame themselves, thinking, "I can't keep doing what I want to do..."
③ Thinking too deeply → Cannot decide because they think about the possibilities too much
"If I choose this, won't I be unable to choose other paths?"
"Maybe there is something that suits me better...?"
Since HSS-type HSPs also have a cautious side, they sometimes think too much and become unable to act.
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But it's okay! There are ways to find what you want to do while utilizing these traits.
3. Prescription for when you are lost about what you want to do
1. Find what moves your heart with the '10-minute excitement method'
When looking for what you want to do, you tend to think 'Can I make a living from this?' or 'Can I keep doing this for a long time?' but first, 'Does it excite me?' is what matters.
Method:
List things you think, 'I could talk about this topic for 10 minutes straight!'
Write down things you could talk about enthusiastically with a friend at a cafe.
For example,
'I lose track of time when talking about spirituality'
'I enjoy sharing AI art'
'I get excited when thinking about explanations for oracle cards'
What naturally excites you is a hint to what you want to do!
2. Make it okay to get bored with 'limited-time challenges'
For HSS-type HSPs, getting bored is normal.
That is why it is important to try things out first rather than deciding, 'This is my calling!'
For example,
'Try writing a blog for just 3 months'
'Try filming videos for just 1 week'
'Try a side hustle for just half a year'
Thinking you have to 'do it forever' creates pressure, but if you think of it as a 'limited time,' you can try it easily.
It is okay to quit if you get bored! Because for HSS-type HSPs, 'getting bored is a sign that you are moving to the next stage.'
3. Accumulate 'small experiments'
Instead of 'deciding what you want to do,' 'trying things out' is what is important!
Don't start big all of a sudden; start small
Experiment casually, such as 'try it just once' or 'try it for free'
For example,
'I want to be a fortune teller, but I lack confidence.'
→ Start by sharing a one-card reading on social media
'I want to try blogging, but I'm worried I won't keep it up.'
→ Try writing just one post
'I want to start a side hustle, but I don't know if I can really do it.'
→ Try it out for free with one person
By accumulating small experiments like this, you'll find 'things you can keep doing' before you know it!
4. Summary
'Not being able to decide what you want to do' is proof that your possibilities are vast!
Here are 3 ways for HSS-type HSPs to move forward without getting lost.
■ Find what moves your heart with the '10-minute excitement method'
■Try things out casually with a 'limited-time challenge'
■Accumulate 'small experiments'
What you want to do is something to 'try out,' not something to 'decide on.' If you're lost,
please take that first small step!
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