"I want more" is the starting line. I give myself permission to desire, and I begin to move.
"I want more"
Even though you feel that way in your heart, have you ever felt a pang of guilt, as if something inside you was hitting the brakes the moment you felt it?
・You feel down on yourself for not sticking to the goals you set
・You wear yourself out because you can't see the end even after putting in the effort
・The moment you imagine your ideal, you give up, thinking, "Maybe this isn't for me"
I understand, because I used to be that way too.
"I'm not there yet, so I have to try harder"
"This isn't good enough, is it?"
Those were the words I told myself every day. My heart was always left behind as the goal moved further away even when I achieved it.
That was when I encountered these words.
"I already have this now. But it's okay to want more"
"It's okay to acknowledge who I am now while envisioning the future"
Once I learned this way of thinking, I was finally able to slowly start acknowledging my desires without blaming myself.
There are only three points.
1. If your wish starts from a place of "I'm not enough," you will get tired
・Goals based on self-denial don't satisfy your heart even when achieved
・When "I'm just..." was my catchphrase, I would burn out quickly even if I managed to take action
2. Starting from "I'm okay as I am now" makes wishes come true more smoothly
・Wishing from a "place of fulfillment" aligns your energy
・When your emotions and intentions are in sync, your wishes blend into reality more easily
3. A fulfilled perspective = reuniting with your true self
・Just being able to tell yourself "You're doing a good job" makes it easier to move forward
・When your wish becomes "self-expression" rather than a "need for compensation," you become kinder to those around you
[Summary]
Wishing for "more" doesn't mean you are denying who you are right now.
Rather, it is precisely because you are properly fulfilling yourself now that you want to see the next view.
That wish is not from a place of lack, but a "signal for the future" that naturally wells up from within.
While listening closely to your delicate and rich sensibilities,
why not gently discover "the future that is just right for you now"?
But... if you are currently feeling,
"I've tried many things, but I still feel uneasy,"
"I really want to know the 'way that suits me'"
If you are feeling that way, it might just be the right time
to obtain your very own "user manual."
The traits of HSP and HSS-type HSP are very delicate and unique.
That is why, rather than searching for a single correct answer, knowing "my own pace"
and "my own switches" is more important than anything else.
In my readings,
I combine the Mayan calendar, numerology, and oracle cards to
・When your "desire to do" is triggered
・Why you stop halfway through
・What kind of work style and lifestyle actually suits you
and interpret these as "your personalized map of sensibilities."
From those who have actually received a reading...
"I'm glad I learned that there are other sides to me that I wasn't even aware of."
"Reading the PDF report carefully allowed me to reaffirm my true self even more. It's a reassuring map that I can look back on whenever I forget, since I tend to forget things easily."
"Every time we exchanged messages on LINE, my heart felt a little more at ease, and I felt encouraged to move forward."
I have received many such comments.
Shall we stop blaming yourself for not being able to move even though you want to?
Let's gently find the "timing" and "deepest true feelings" within you
together.
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