♦︎52 Searching for the "Reason"

"I told you to hurry up!"

In the morning rush,
I end up raising my voice

The child starts crying,
and my wife goes a bit quiet

I don't want to be angry

I asked the teacher when I picked them up

"Everyone loses their composure in the morning."
"It's not just you, Dad."

The teacher continued

"Instead of trying not to get angry,"
"try looking for the 'reason'"

"If you do get angry, look for the 'reason' even if you're on the train"

・The child was being persistent
・My head was full of work

"Once people know the 'reason,' they can process why they got angry."
"Once you've processed it, when you get home from work,
tell them the reason and say 'I'm sorry'"

From the next day on, whenever I spoke too harshly, I talked to them properly when I got home

If you know the reason, you can explain it properly.
With a little time to think and a deep breath, you can regain your composure

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