【The Day I Let Go of 'Being Right'】On the Town Chat LIVE

Hello, this is Noriko Ivory.

Today, I'd like to talk about "relationships where you don't have to win".

I'll share how I successfully let things slide when I thought, "I can't get through to this person."

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It happened just recently.

There was a rather surprising
incident
in a group activity I'm involved in.

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In the middle of a pair-work session.

One person suddenly said,
"Well, I have things to do, so I'm heading out!" and
left with a smile.

The rest of us were left there
in a state of "Wait, what...?"

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At that moment, the first thing I thought was,
"I probably can't get through to this person,"
I laughed.

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If it were the old me,
I think I would have fought with "rightness," saying
"Everyone is troubled!" or "Follow the rules!"

But that day,

Instead of the "correct answer,"
I tried thinking, "What is a way that everyone can be satisfied with right now?"

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So,
I decided to change the work itself.

It felt a little less fulfilling, but
the atmosphere of the room returned to normal.

You know.
I realized something.

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People,
even when they seem selfish,

are often acting based on
their own sense of 'justice'.

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So,
instead of 'who is right',
I choose based on 'what makes me feel at ease'.

In other words,
by daring to chooserelationships where I don't have to win,

the one who was saved first
was actually me.

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