Personality Diagnosis and ASD (Wanting to see my child with clear eyes)

⭐️This is a long 1680-character article. You can understand most of the content just by reading the bold text👍

I mentioned that I had a personality diagnosis done by Pirika-san, but guess what! She kindly said it would be easy to do one for my son too, so of course, she looked at him as well😤❣️❣️

First of all,

I was surprised to learn that what I thought were traits stemming from ASD might actually be his inherent temperament!!

It's just natural~

Oh, I see~

I don't have to fit everything into ASD. I felt relieved, thinking maybe I don't have to keep telling myself I need to relax, I need to relax😁✌️

The good thing about personality diagnosis is

that it makes you feel
it's okay to be yourself

Pirika-san

Speaking of Pirika-san, short stories

This one is apparently a competition entry✨✨
It's a cute story, and Noriko really loves this kind of thing

Stories with sweets in them—don't you feel like your heart is eating something delicious too?

Now then, my son's diagnosis results

Ta-da, starting now🧢

His essence is
Cheetah

Huh? Slow and sluggish but a cheetah? Lol

They say Cheetahs are in a state of eternal adolescence😤

In manga terms, that's Luffy from ONE PIECE
He's the main character, isn't he~❣️

Overflowing with energy and always moving around!
Their mental age stays at 5th or 6th grade, forever young
They act without thinking

Fall seven times, stand up eight
They don't get discouraged even if they fail

⭐️Let's apply this to my son~~

He's not hyperactive, just slow-moving, but
he gets distracted so easily
(Especially with things he doesn't want to do, like homework)

They said he might be the type whose brain is always busy
That's possible😂✨✨

He works hard at things he can't do until he can!
He doesn't get discouraged and doesn't seem to worry much
He's so cool~❣️
Mommy loves that about you~

Oh! That fits perfectly😳✨✨

And then, a surprising word from Pirika-san
Your son doesn't worry about the future nearly as much as you do, Mom.

Huh?
Is that so?

I hate to say it, but I'm worried sick as his mom

However,he himself is just carefree😂

And, and, from here on out,
the surface Wolf

Isn't that the same as me, Mom~~

From middle school or high school,
a period where he prefers being alone might emerge?

Thinking about material things,
or gaining knowledge from books

You might be concerned about him not playing with friends, but

It's just a phase, don't worry about it

You can tell the future?
I think, 'Huh?' but...
It's possible! My son still loves books even now

Mommy loves books too, so it must be in his blood 😆🤲
Go ahead and analyze the wolf-lover to your heart's content❣️ lol

Oh yes 😳!! This, it still happens now, you know?


My son reads Mommy's Cassandra books enthusiastically, reads about ASD traits, and there's a part that says he gets angry when things don't go his way...Am I on the autism spectrum?he asks me

And I say, yes, that's right. It's just a part of your nature.
He understands, 'So that's why I get angry,' and when a situation arises where he might get angry, he asks me, 'Is this anger because of the spectrum?'he's started asking me

At the library
I want to control my angerhe said
and chose and borrowed a book lol

Why do I get angry?
Maybe it's easier if I don't get angry?
He's reached that point, and he's only in 3rd grade 😳✨✨

I'm a little surprised

And so, and so, let's get back to the diagnosis talk.

Regarding my son'sway of lifeyou see

✴︎Elite
✴︎Honor student
✴︎Cannot forgive himself for his own mistakes
✴︎Blames himself when his test scores are bad

⭐️In short, a good kid who can't quite let loose

Yes, yes,

It fits perfectly

I thought this was a trait, you know.
Turns out it was just his temperament.
I mean, there might be some ASD traits too, but
there are kids with this kind of personality, right?

I have to loosen up!
Maybe I don't need to overthink it~😂✌️

And you know, the unexpected part is the
ability part.

🔸Strong numerical ability

🔸Strong judgment ability

I knew it~~

Converting Japanese eras to Western years,
converting Western years to Japanese eras,
my son calculates them in seconds!
Isn't that amazing?

For this part, I'm going to focus on
developing his strengths~~

My son is my son.
He has so many good points, right?
There's no need to force things.
Let's develop those parts❣️❣️

I feel so much more at ease.

Note is great, isn't it?👍

Pirika-san,
thank you very much😆✨🤲

The article I submitted to the Pirika Grand Prix,
which led me to take the personality diagnosis.

The Cassandra Thanksgiving Festival I actually held.

I recently held a Cassandra Grand Thanksgiving Festival at Clearance, so I will post about it in another article soon😆✌️

Well then, well then~
I am happy that you read until the end
Please come again✨✨