If you're struggling to meet someone, you might just be looking at the wrong "entrance" [Shibi's Zi Wei Dou Shu Mini-Course]

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This "Shibi's Zi Wei Dou Shu Mini-Course" is a series designed for beginners to learn the Eastern divination method of Zi Wei Dou Shu in a "gentle and practical" way.

Rather than difficult theories, we focus on "wisdom you can use starting tomorrow." Rather than predicting the future, we focus on "the peace of mind that comes from understanding yourself."

Together, let's gently light a flame in your heart while unraveling the map of the stars. Now, the theme of our first lesson is—"The Entrance to Meeting Someone."

Introduction

Saying you have no one to meet while opening a dating app. Turning down introductions while going to matchmaking parties. Saying you're busy while prioritizing friends' invitations—.

Wait, what am I doing?

Even though you're trying hard, for some reason, your connections aren't moving. In fact, you're just getting more and more tired. Could it be that I'm not cut out for meeting people? There might be nights when you blame yourself like that.

But please, wait a moment. It might just be that you are trying hard at the "wrong entrance."

When will you meet your fated person?

In Zi Wei Dou Shu, there are stars called "Tian Xi" and "Hong Luan" that govern encounters and romance.

These two stars always enter "opposite palaces" in your birth chart. In other words, if you find one, the position of the other is automatically determined. That paired relationship tells you your "entrance to meeting someone."

Divination is not about predicting the future, but a map for knowing your own "flow of movement." What the stars tell you is "the place where connections naturally arise for you." It's not that you are bad, nor that you aren't trying hard enough; it's just that the "entrance was different."

Knowing the stars is a gentle guide that allows you to stop blaming yourself.

Zi Wei Dou Shu Star Reading

The "Entrance to Meeting Someone" read through the stars can be understood in just 6 lines

In Zi Wei Dou Shu, the entrance to meeting someone is divided into 6 patterns based on the "opposite relationship" of the palaces where Tian Xi and Hong Luan enter.

1. Life Palace ↔ Travel Palace
The type who falls in love at first sight and takes initiative. Connections are born by "changing locations," such as changing jobs, traveling, or participating in events.

2. Sibling Palace ↔ Friends Palace
Connections are made through introductions from friends and colleagues. A network of people you trust is the foundation for your encounters.

3. Spouse Palace ↔ Career Palace
A line where love grows through work. Your fated person might be among your peers, business partners, or joint project members.

4. Children Palace ↔ Property Palace
A type that develops gradually through long-term association. Relationships with neighbors, classmates, or acquaintances deepen and turn into romance.

5. Wealth Palace ↔ Virtue Palace
Meeting naturally in places related to hobbies, learning, or fandom activities. You find yourselves drawn to each other before you realize it, as you share what you love.

6. Parents Palace ↔ Health Palace
Connections are born through introductions from relatives or elders, or through mentor-student relationships. A traditional and polite way of meeting suits you best.

Which is your "entrance"?

First, check your birth chart to see where the Tian Xi and Hong Luan stars are located. Then, simply look at which line their opposing palace corresponds to.

For example, if your Tian Xi is in the Siblings Palace, its opposite is the Servants Palace. In other words, your "network of friends and colleagues" is your main battlefield. Rather than working hard on matching apps, it is much easier for connections to move forward if you politely ask a trusted friend, "Please introduce me if you know someone good."

Conversely, if your Hong Luan is in the Career Palace, its opposite is the Spouse Palace. Romance is likely to be born through work. Therefore, participating in industry study groups or joint projects is actually the best form of "marriage hunting."

The stars also tell you the timing

The periods when Tian Xi and Hong Luan come around in your annual luck (zodiac) or minor limit (age) are "years when it is easy to meet someone." By aligning with that timing and taking small actions along your entrance line, connections will begin to move surprisingly naturally.

The important thing is to "focus on one line." If you spread yourself too thin, your energy will disperse, and you won't be able to cultivate connections anywhere.

A gentle note of caution when reading the stars

After reading this far, some of you might feel discouraged, thinking, "My Tian Xi and Hong Luan timing is still a long way off..."

It is okay. In Zi Wei Dou Shu, there are many other stars besides Tian Xi and Hong Luan that can indicate the timing of meeting someone. Even if these two stars are in the distant future, it is not uncommon for other star cycles to indicate that "this year is the time to move."

Also, if there are ominous stars overlapping with the Tian Xi and Hong Luan line, the quality and flow of your encounters may become complicated. The stars tell you the entrance, but reading the "condition of the road" requires a deeper reading.

If you feel like you want to "know your stars more accurately" or "confirm if it is really okay to move at this timing," please request a reading from a fortune teller who studies Zi Wei Dou Shu. The map of the stars is profound, and there is a way of reading it tailored to each individual. Let's face our stars carefully and without rushing.

And to all the fortune tellers who specialize in Zi Wei Dou Shu like me...
I am sure many of you are familiar with this star reading, but what did you think? If you would like to know more ways to see the timing of good connections outside of the Tian Xi and Hong Luan line, please leave a comment.

Let's deepen our learning together 🍀

Message

Meeting someone is not a matter of lack of effort or lack of charm.

You were just not moving through the "entrance that suits you." The stars are clearly telling you the place where you can shine naturally. You don't have to blame yourself anymore. Because you are already prepared to be loved just as you are.

In closing

For those who think, "I want to know my entrance more deeply" or "I want to learn how to read a birth chart." We offer courses where you can easily learn everything from the basics of Zi Wei Dou Shu to practical application, as well as a LINE account that delivers daily star movements. The next door is already open for you.

Please register for our official LINE account, type "Entrance" in a message, and send it to us. We will analyze your entrance and send the results to you.
*If you would like a detailed reading, we will provide separate information.

If you want to know how to generate a birth chart or learn the meanings of the stars, please click here. You can learn through manga.
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