The Trap of the Word "Cleanliness." The Strategy for "Avoiding Point Deductions" That a Former Baseball Player Implemented First and Can Be Used Starting Tomorrow.
Introduction
I like people who look clean.
I've heard this phrase from women many times.
But even though I take a bath every day and
wear washed clothes,
why am I never chosen?
Have you ever had that experience?
I was the same, having lived my life covered in dust, dedicated solely to baseball.
I thought I was being "clean," but
I still looked somewhat unrefined.
In fact,
there is a decisive gap between the "cleanliness" women talk about and
the "cleanliness" men think of.
This time, no sense of style is required.
I will share the "true nature of cleanliness" and the strategy that anyone can implement starting tomorrow.
The True Nature of Cleanliness
and the strategy for it.
1. Cleanliness is a game of preventing "point deductions," not
adding points.
There is a truth you must know first.
Cleanliness is not a "weapon" that makes you popular on its own, but
disqualification (negative evaluation)
the minimum requirement to avoid being disqualified.
No matter how interesting your conversation is,
the moment even one item on the cleanliness checklist is marked with an "X," the game is over.
You are instantly excluded from a woman's romantic interests.
In other words, what we should do is
aim for 100 points
not,
thoroughly avoid 0 points
strategy.
2. The "3 Tactics" I, a former baseball player, changed first.
To escape my days of being unpopular, the strategic points I first addressed are the following three.
① Management of "tips" (nails and hair)
Women look at the details surprisingly closely.
• Nails:
Keep them short and shaped.
Having long white parts is out of the question.
• Nose hair/Eyebrows:
Even if just 1 millimeter is sticking out,
your intellectual impression will collapse.
Make maintenance twice a week a routine.
② Not "material," but
wrinkles and fit.
There is no need to buy expensive clothes.
• Wrinkles:
Even if a washed shirt is "clean,"
if it has wrinkles, it lacks "cleanliness."
• Fit:
Choose clothes that fit your body type.
This alone creates persuasiveness as a "capable man in an organization."
3. The Foundation Known as "Skin Texture"
As a former baseball player, my skin was a mess from sunburn and dryness.
Discard the old-fashioned idea that "men shouldn't use toner," and start by thoroughly moisturizing.
Just by controlling skin shine, your sense of cleanliness will improve dramatically.
Conclusion
Cleanliness is not about the looks you were born with.
It is about the attitude of "whether you are making the minimum effort to avoid causing discomfort to others."
Just as baseball has defensive fundamentals, dating has defensive fundamentals too.
The first step is "cleanliness."
Starting tomorrow, first check your "tips" in front of the mirror.
Your comeback story begins there.
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