For those of you who are too kind and get exhausted. The boundary of "loving yourself" that Numerology 2 teaches you
Good evening🌙
I'm Nana, a numerology advisor.
Starting today, I will unravel the "roles of the heart" that we tend to play for each numerology number.
The one we are focusing on this time is Numerology "2".
In a word, people with Numerology 2 are "supporters of love and harmony."
They are geniuses at sensing the atmosphere around them, and they are truly kind people who are very good at being close to someone's heart.
But, because of that kindness, haven't you been unknowingly playing roles like this and feeling distressed?
A role that Numerology 2 people tend to play: Caretaker
One of the types of Adult Children (AC) is the "caretaker."
This is a role where you put your own feelings on the back burner and work hard to take care of the emotions of your family and those around you.
If the "ability to sense" that Numerology 2 possesses is used in a childhood environment in the direction of "Is Mom in a bad mood today?"
"I have to make sure I don't make Dad angry,"
it becomes easy to become this caretaker.
• You end up taking everything on yourself, thinking "I have to do it"
• If the other person isn't happy, you feel like you have no value
• You feel tremendous guilt about saying "NO"
Have you ever felt that way?
Your kindness is not meant to wear yourself down
You want to help someone, you want to be useful.
That feeling is a wonderful "treasure" that your soul possesses.
But, if you are currently feeling,
"I'm kind of exhausted"
"I feel like I'm the only one working hard,"
that might be a sign that the "boundary" between you and the other person has become a little thin.
The true brilliance of Numerology 2 lies not in "taking care" of others, but in "resonating" with them as equals.
Before filling someone else's cup, first,
it is okay to fill your own cup with the things you love.
"Kindness to yourself" starting today
A small step to graduate from being a caretaker and return to being a "happy supporter" as you were meant to be.
When someone asks you for something, or when you think "Oh, I have to do this for them,"please wait 10 secondsbefore answering.
And ask your heart this:
"Do I really want to do this right now? Am I pushing myself?"
Even if you say "NO," your value will not change by even a millimeter.
You being happy and smiling is what ultimately makes the people around you the happiest.
Numerology 2 people have that kind of magical power🌸
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