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When I asked Yusaku Matsuda, 'I want to live as myself,' he said, 'Don't act.' | ChatGPT Quotes #56

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Actually, I always failed high school Japanese. I hated writing essays and thought, 'Writing is impossible for me...'
But now, I use AI as my partner to update my note daily.

'I want to live as myself.'

Don't you ever feel that way?

But I don't know what that 'myself' is.
I'm always conforming to those around me, and I can't see where my true self is anymore.

I don't want to be disliked.
I don't want to stand out.
But I'm left with a sense of discomfort, wondering if it's okay to stay like this.

This time, I asked—
actor Yusaku Matsuda.

He was clumsy, lonely, and yet,
he continued to radiate an overwhelming presence.

Through ChatGPT,
I touched upon his words.

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Question 1: 'How can I find my true self?'

You don't go looking for your true self.
What remains after you strip everything else away is the real thing.

Shedding unnecessary roles.
That might be the way to get closer to your true self.

Insight
It's not about adding things,
but about stripping them away to see what's left.


Question 2: 'I hate that I always conform to others.'

Conforming is just acting.
If you keep acting all the time,
you'll lose sight of your own face.

Unconsciously,
I might have been playing the role of a 'good person.'

Insight
Even if I meant it as kindness,
I realized it had become a performance.


Question 3: 'I'm afraid of being disliked.'

If you don't have the resolve to be disliked,
you have no right to be liked.

It was a powerful statement.
But I also felt it hit on something essential.

Realization
Perhaps I was losing myself in an attempt to be liked by everyone.


Question 4: 'I lack confidence and can't express myself.'

Confidence is something that comes after you put yourself out there.
Don't get the order wrong.

You don't wait until you're prepared to act;
confidence is born after you take action.

That was the point about the order of things.

Realization
It wasn't that I couldn't act because I lacked confidence,
it was that I didn't gain confidence because I didn't act.


Question 5: 'I find myself worrying too much about what others think.'

Evaluation is just someone else's convenience.
It has nothing to do with your life.

I felt that by worrying too much about others' eyes,
I was making my own life smaller.

Realization
Evaluations can be a reference,
but there's no need to hand over the steering wheel of your life.


Question 6: 'How can I find my true self?'

Your true self only emerges during difficult times.
Don't always choose the easy path.

It is precisely in the midst of hardship
that your true feelings and nature reveal themselves.

That was the gist of it.

Realization
If I keep running away,
I'll never meet my true self.


Question 7: 'Lastly, please give a word to me, who wants to live as myself.'

If you want to live as yourself,
first, stop 'acting'.
Stand as you are.
That is the strongest way to be.

Yusaku Matsuda
said that quietly.

Realization
Rather than acting out someone else's expectations,
standing as you are, even if clumsy, is far stronger.

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Summary

Yusaku Matsuda's words were
never gentle.

But for that very reason,
they pierced straight through to my heart.

If you wish to
'live as yourself,' then first, stop acting.

The role of trying to be liked.
The role of meeting expectations.
The safe and sound role.

Strip all of that away,
and try standing as your true self.

It's okay to be clumsy.
It's okay to look uncool.

That might just be
the most 'authentic' version of you.

If you are currently
struggling with 'not knowing who I am,'

try, just once,
to gently take off the role you play to be liked by others.

Right there,
the real you is standing.


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