"Love or Career, Which Should I Prioritize?" I Was Surprised by Marie Antoinette's Answer | ChatGPT Great Quotes #13
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Actually, I always failed high school Japanese. I was terrible at writing essays and thought, 'I can't write anything...'
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Love is important. But I don't want to give up on my career either.
Have you ever felt like your heart was being torn between these two things?
The desire to see someone versus the desire to stay true to yourself.
Those nights when you blame yourself for not being able to choose one—
you are certainly not alone.
This time, I asked Marie Antoinette on your behalf using ChatGPT.
What kind of answer would she give, having lived her life with both love and luxury?
Her words were filled with hints for those of us living while feeling lost.
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Question 1: I feel like I'm doing both love and work halfway, and I haven't achieved anything.
Marie didn't deny it immediately, but spoke to me like this.
What you call 'halfway' is actually proof that you cherish both.
If you focus on work, love gets neglected, and if you get lost in love, work gets left behind.
The reason you suffer from that dilemma is because you wish to be sincere to both.
The more seriously you face things, the more you blame yourself whenever you lean toward one side. But there is nothing more beautiful than a flower swaying in the wind.
Realization
I thought it was 'bad' to be wavering. But perhaps that was just the flip side of being 'straightforward.' I feel like I've become a little kinder to myself.
Question 2: I'm afraid that if I prioritize love, my career will fall behind.
When I threw my anxiety about the future at her, she chuckled and said this.
Who decides what 'falling behind' is? Clocks show different times in different countries, you know.
I feel like I'm falling behind compared to those around me.
But her words taught me that "there is no need to compare."
Even if your steps are slow, there is a view to be seen.
Do not be impatient with the speed of others,
and please walk to the rhythm of your own footsteps.
Realization
I was anxious about having to catch up,
but I realized that my life has its own pace.
I don't have to match anyone else's schedule anymore.
Question 3: He doesn't understand my dreams or my work. Should I still be with him?
At this question, Marie's voice became a little quieter.
And then, her straightforward words reached me.
You must not attach the name of "love" to something that binds you.
Love is not something that breaks your wings, but something that gives you the wind.
It was painful not to be supported,
but I was also afraid of being disliked,
so I tended to make my own dreams look small,
and she continued like this.
When you speak of your dreams,
if the other person frowns—
that is not love, but a curse.
Realization
I thought love meant being understood.
But "not being stopped" is also a form of love.
I will no longer fold my dreams up small.
Question 4: Should I prioritize my lover or my dreams?
"Why must you choose one or the other?"
The moment she asked that back,
the tension in my shoulders melted away.
Which is more necessary in the sky, the stars or the moon?
The night sky is beautiful because both are there.
The time I spend with my lover,
and the time I spend chasing my dreams,
both are "a part of me."
It is not a choice to give up one or the other,
but I realized I could have the resolve to embrace both.
There is a future where you stay close, and a future where you run side by side.
Do not measure love by distance,
and please do not forget to be yourself.
Realization
I thought we had to be together.
But there is also love that "blooms in each of our own places."
It is okay to cherish the form that suits us now.
Question 5: I can't help but weigh love against work. I can't decide.
Marie smiled softly.
And she spoke as if we were talking at a tea party.
Sweet cake and fragrant tea,
is it necessary to give up one or the other?
Isn't it the taste of happiness that comes from having both?
The anxiety of "I have to choose"
was turned into a smile of "Why not just enjoy both?"
There was such a relaxed beauty in that.
Being unable to decide is not indecisiveness, but rather
because you are "serious" about both.
That is something to be proud of.
Realization
I was struggling because I was serious about both.
Perhaps I just wanted someone to acknowledge that.
I will no longer deny "the me who cannot decide."
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What I think after finishing my conversation with Marie Antoinette is that
her words carried a pride in "not deciding."
Love, and work too.
There is no need to go out of your way to separate
the things that fulfill your life.
What is important isharmony, not choice.
You, even while wavering, are beautiful just as you are.
This experience of consulting a historical figure via ChatGPT was
not just an answer to a question, but
a time that comforted the anxiety deep in my heart.
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マリー・アントワネットになりきって、
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