Are you becoming a 'But-But' person?
Hello.
I am Masami Kawanishi,
a specialist in increasing salon revenue pillars.
When you think about your action goals,
what do you consider?
○ Specifically, what will you challenge?
○ Then, what should you do and in which month?
○ What do you need to prepare now for that?
○ For whom do you want to deliver what?
○ Why do you want to do that?
If you don't ask questions like this,
put them into words,
and clarify the deadlines for when you will do them,
in the blink of an eye,
three months or half a year will pass,
and your plans will fall through, right...
However,
actually, no matter how detailed and
carefully these plans are made,
no matter how much of a time management expert you become,
if you keep saying 'a certain word',
you will never be able to achieve themin your lifetime.
That 'certain word' is...
But because...
But also...
In other words,
if you become a 'But-But' person,
no matter how many plans you make, those wishes will not come true.
This word 'but' has
a nasty magical power
that justifies the reasons for not doing things(sad)
【True Wishes^^】
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I actually want to revise my salon prices
I actually want to increase product sales
I actually want to prepare pillars other than the salon
I actually want to try creating a course
【Reasons for not doing it(_;】
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But because I have no money...
But because I have no time...
But because I have no confidence...
But because my family opposes it...
There are really so many people who
make their true wishes and the words 'but, but'
a set too naturally...
As soon as you voice a wish, don't you reflexively
say 'but, but'?
You say, 'I really want to do it, but...'
I have no money, so it can't be helped.
I have no time, I'm busy, so it can't be helped.
I have no confidence, so it can't be helped.
My family opposes it, so it can't be helped.
Really?
Is it okay to just dismiss it with those words?
Your wonderful hopes and desires,
are you really okay with staying as you are, without anything changing?
Are you being honest with yourself about that?
If you actually want to do it!!!...
I want you to be honest with that voice.
Even if you are healthy now, our lives are limited.
Isn't it too sad to end that precious time
with 'yes, but...'?
Be honest with yourself.
I know well that this sounds simple
but is not
actually easy.
I have also struggled and gone in circles quite a bit.
When you put a lid on your feelings,
at first you feel uneasy, but once you get used to keeping the lid on,
you gradually stop even feelingthat you have a lid on them
, don't you?
You become insensitive to feeling or putting your true intentions into words.
Furthermore, when you become a 'Yes, but...' person,
you go beyond being insensitive,
and you might be telling yourself,
'It's okay not to fulfill your desires. You are not the kind of person worthy of fulfilling those desires.'
You might be trying very hard to convince yourself of that.
Will you stay a 'Yes, but...' person and have nothing change?
Or will you graduate from being a 'Yes, but...' person and fulfill your desires?
If you choose to graduate...
please try to be completely honest with yourself.
The easiest way is to
try releasing your true feelings,
even if it's just scribbling on paper
or if it's not organized,and that works well ^^
You don't have to show it to anyone, after all.
Please try writing exactly as you feel.
𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠𓇠
If you feel,
'It might be difficult to continue working the way I do now,'
if you feel that way,
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