[Trial Dating] How to Gauge Compatibility Through LINE Pace and Content

After a matchmaking meeting, if both parties express their intention to meet again to the agency, a 'trial dating' relationship is established.

In trial dating, you are not yet lovers, but rather in a 'friend' relationship.

I ended up in trial dating with three men, including my husband.

However! Right after exchanging LINE contacts, I was able to gauge my compatibility with these men!

If I say that,
I might get scolded, saying 'You should take more time to evaluate them!', but... (laughs)

But in the end, I was right.

LINE is something where everyone has different paces and content (feelings, etc.) when sending messages.

The pace and content of LINE messages with my husband were similar for both of us, so it didn't feel like a burden.

On the other hand,

for the other two men, the pace was too fast or they kept asking questions, which
made me feel mentally exhausted.
*I think it's perfectly fine if that matches another woman.

Even if you make a date appointment while feeling this 'mental exhaustion',
it becomes 'a chore to go'.

I am doing matchmaking while busy with work.

In such a situation, matchmaking where you 'feel it's a chore to meet the other person' might cause damage to your mind and body.

Before that,
it's also unfair to the other person.

Isn't the probability of developing into a serious relationship extremely low when starting from 'mental exhaustion' or 'feeling like it's a chore'?

I would like you to spend your trial dating period while keeping the above in mind.

Wishing you all the best in your marriage hunting journey❤️❤️