[The rebellious phase is proof of growth!] Even if it's tough now, a promising future awaits

When you hear the word [rebellious phase],
you only have a negative image of it, but
after experiencing it, I now
view it positively!

Once you get through the painful and long tunnel,
a day will surely come when you think, 'I'm glad I did!'

A child who rebels severely = strong ego = easier to become independent

Not everyone fits this pattern,
but this time, I'm talking about the pattern of children who do.

To parents who have children in their rebellious phase.
Thank you for your hard work every day.

The degree of the rebellious phase
varies for each child,
but as a parent, you feel like you might
have a nervous breakdown, don't you?

Even if you complain to friends or acquaintances around you,
you won't find any solutions, and in fact,
you might even be told, [Aren't you demanding too much from your child?]

'In our house, we let our children do as they please'
'I don't tell them to study all the time!'
That's why I think they don't rebel much...
I've heard that answer so many times.

For those of you with children who have a severe rebellious phase,
you've had experiences like this, right??

I have a daughter and a son,
and my daughter has had a strong ego since she was three,
and she was the type of child who would make a scene
when we went out to eat or went somewhere.

It's not that I didn't discipline her,
but she probably looked like a child who wasn't disciplined.

Since she was little,
I thought she was a handful.

As she grew up little by little,
her language became worse,
she wouldn't do what I told her to do,
and she would do what I told her not to do.

When she became a high school student,
her attitude was as if there was a gangster in the house.

Fortunately, she didn't throw things or use violence,
but still.

If she were rebelling against me nagging her to study,
I would understand, but
even when I didn't say anything,
she would bring up one worrying issue after another.

For example...
She attended a public high school that prohibited part-time jobs,
but she went for an interview on her own and started a part-time job.

Of course, we had discussions,
but she would never budge.
(She wouldn't say, 'I guess I won't do the job after all!')

Even though it's adolescence,
while some children obediently follow the path laid out by their parents,
I felt stressed every day because she would do whatever she wanted,
completely ignoring even the things I asked her not to do at all.

I wonder if every family has something going on,
but I think my daughter's rebellious phase
was really quite severe.

Because it felt like there was a gangster in the house (lol)

There are surely those who have experienced
an even more intense rebellious phase than in my home!

My daughter's rebellious phase ended
abruptly upon graduating from high school.

Looking back, it was truly difficult.

But now, I even think I'm glad
she had that rebellious phase.

I think I can only say that
because I can see the exit of the tunnel.

I want to do this!
I don't want to do that!
Because she was firm about these things,
we clashed.

Now, as she job hunts,
she researches everything herself,
and while she asks about things she doesn't understand,
she takes action on her own without me needing to intervene.

She has also decided to live alone in another prefecture,
and she is nothing but reliable.

On the other hand, a classmate of my daughter who didn't rebel much
and listened to her parents was
easy to raise at the time and I was envious!
but before high school graduation,
she was troubled because she couldn't find what she wanted to do
or what school she wanted to attend,
and her parents were desperately searching on her behalf.

For those who feel their child is
'strong-willed and hard to raise',
it might be tough right now,
but please believe in your child,
knowing they will become a reliable adult.

Types with strong egos,
types good at adapting to others,
types who dislike being given instructions,
types who find it easier to move when given instructions,
and more can be understood through [Four Pillars of Destiny].

Discovering your child's characteristics,
and understanding how you should interact with them as a parent,
might lead to hints for
raising your child.

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