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You Don't Have to Be Edgy! The Way of Life as a 'Skilled Wealthy Person' That I, a Jack-of-All-Trades, Discovered

I envied people who were edgy, and
I felt like it was about me.

……I understand that feeling all too well.
Because that was me.

This is a comment left on anote I wrote previously.

・I don't have any particular strengths
・I have things I like, but compared to that person, they're not a big deal
・I've started to think that what I've done so far might not be a big deal

That's what I was thinking, but I was surprised when a fortune teller told me this.

Being able to do everything evenly is actually a strength!?
Let's become aware of your own strengths!

It's hard to understand your own 'strengths' by yourself, isn't it?
I was worried that I 'didn't have any edgy strengths,' but through two events, I was able to discover my own strengths and expand my future possibilities.

This time, I will sharetips for finding your own strengths.

A brief self-introduction

I am Motsuki Mochizuki, a Web writer & supporter.
I usually do production & support work in the human resources industry. I have supported about 10,800 people so far. I am also involved in job advertisement writing, and I have written about 7,200 articles to date.

I am from and live in Hiroshima, and I am actually a HIT Hiroshima Tourism Ambassador.

While struggling with my main job, child-rearing, and side job, I post on note about things that move my heart.

I was worried because I couldn't be edgy

'I wanted an edgy talent...'

Since childhood, I liked drawing and writing and often did them. But compared to kids who were good at it, I felt ashamed of the difference in ability. I couldn't show it to those around me, and I would hide it and get defeated on my own.

I could acquire skills up to a certain level, but I could never reach the next step, and it was frustrating.

The 'can't be edgy syndrome' has often caused me pain. In college, during job hunting, and even after becoming a working adult.

Even after I started working as a Web writer after giving birth and returning to work, I was always feeling uneasy, thinking, 'I apply but don't get accepted. I have no expertise. I've lost confidence in my writing...'

The trigger that opened my eyes

At that time, I had a Four Pillars of Destiny reading done by Torta, a fortune teller who is a member of the membership I participate in.
Here is the content of the reading.

While listening, I was able to think,
It's better not to force yourself to be edgy!
and I felt like my path had opened up a little.

The most impressive part of Torta's article was this.

People might call it a
"jack-of-all-trades, master of none,"
but I think you can become a


"skillful wealthy person"!


https://note.com/ms_toruta_168/n/na34bec31627a

Skillful... wealthy...!!
(At that moment, a jolt of electricity ran through Motsuki)

A jolt of electricity ran through me, as I had previously struggled with the feeling that "I'm good at multitasking, but I can't be edgy."

Until now, it was considered good to "master one thing," so that idea had never occurred to me at all.
I used to think, "There's always someone better than me, and I don't have any strong points." (˘ ˘)

Even if each skill is a little weaker compared to someone who is edgy, you can just combine them with other skills and experiences. Let's make the pentagon of the skill chart bigger...!!

When Toruta-san told me this, I realized, My own thinking might have been narrowing my possibilities! What a waste! I was struck by that realization.

Seeing things even more clearly from a different perspective

Just recently, I purchased a book by Mikumayutan-san and since there was a free consultation as a purchase bonus, I decided to take the plunge and use it.
(Thank you so much...!)

Mikumayutan-san's book, "How to Start a Life of Writing: The Mindset for 'Continuing to Write' That Is More Important Than Writing Skills" comes with a purchaser bonus.
There are two types of bonuses, and I used one of them: "a 30-minute free consultation with Mikumayutan-san."
You can find my thoughts on the book here.

A little supplement

Receiving an objective opinion from a third party was shocking, as I was told that things I didn't consider to be major strengths were actually "visible as strengths."

・Background
・University graduate
・Administrative experience and skills
・Being an active company employee

Things that I thought were nothing special can appear as strengths to other people.

Use what I have done so far and what I like to provide support
To that end, I will develop various skills, including creative ones

Just being able to think that my broad range of experience and skills, which I thought were half-baked, are not a waste at all, makes my heart feel much lighter.

It is people other than yourself who "evaluate" you and "request work" from you.
By hearing objective evaluations of myself from others, I felt that I could notice strengths I wasn't aware of and expand my future possibilities.

To those of you who are all-rounders like me!
Let's not be jacks-of-all-trades, but become skillful wealthy people!

I will share insights on how to live as a "skillful wealthy person"

I write about moments that move my heart.
I would be happy if you followed me to keep up with my future articles and growth!

I turned the frustration of not being able to stand out into the powerful weapon of being an all-rounder.
I want to apply this shift in perspective I discovered to my future activities!


Thank you for reading!

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