My Dream, Written with Gratitude ☆彡

Many people participated in my project,#MyDream.

There were 34 people in total who posted. Including this article of mine, that makes 35.

I am truly grateful 💛

I heard many wonderful dreams from all of you.

I, too, have shared various thoughts here on note, but after hearing everyone's wonderful dreams and compiling them, I decided to talk about my own current dream at the end.

Before that...

It's okay for dreams to change!

Dreams change many times.

And I think it's perfectly fine for them to keep changing.

There is no rule that says once you decide on a dream, you must pursue that specific dream.

Why? Because we are growing every single day.

The person I have been until now, the many people around me who have influenced me, the countless things I can see and things I cannot see...

Knowledge, learning, environment...

All of that has influenced me and made me who I am today.

I believe the person I will become will also be shaped by all the people I will meet and all the things I will see and not see from here on out.

My current thoughts might change in a few months, or some might evolve into different forms...

There may also be things I continue to cherish without change.

With that in mind, I would like to write about my current "dream."

However, I believe what I am about to write will remain at my core as my "personal axis."

My Dream

I wrote an article like this before.

It was an article from when I hadn't even been on note for a month yet.

In it, I said something like this.

“Sending cheers with great love 💛”

“I wish for the lives of everyone I am involved with—and everyone I might be involved with in the future—from 'infancy to end-of-life planning,' to be rich and happy.

And I hope that at every moment, each person will never be lonely, will be loved by many, and will reach their final day thinking, 'I am glad I was born.'

That is why I want a world where people are not treated poorly and human rights are not trampled upon.
People should be cherished and their human rights should be respected.

But society does not change easily.
Even if I shout or appeal for something loudly, it will be difficult to make the world a place where 'everyone is happy.' It is unfortunate, but true.

But...
Mother Teresa, whom I respect, said:

“Be faithful in small things, be kind.”
“What matters is how much love you put into it.”

Mother Teresa helped those facing death, gave them medicine, and stayed by their side at the end.
People around her said, 'It's a waste to give medicine to those who are about to die and to stay by their side,' but Mother said,
'I want them to go to heaven feeling that they were treated warmly and loved, rather than dying without being loved by anyone'...

And she also said this:
“Love begins at home.”

First, I want to love my family, spread that love little by little to those around me, and extend that love to the people close to me.

And, 'I want to support the people around me with what I can do and send them cheers.'

From 'infancy to end-of-life planning,' I want to support not only the 'babies,' 'children,' 'people with disabilities,' and 'elderly' at each stage, but also the 'mothers,' 'fathers,' 'childcare workers,' and 'caregivers' involved with them 💛

What I aim for is not to say 'do your best,' but to simply 'listen to their thoughts,' 'stay by their side,' and introduce necessary support and measures.

I hope to be able to carry out such activities.'”

This is my starting point.

To that end, I want to work on what I can do now, one step at a time.

I believe that if I connect the things I can do now for my big dream, I might be able to get closer to it.

What I am hoping for as I work toward my big dream is

to support everyone from those raising children to those approaching the end of their lives, using what I can do.

What I can do to provide that support (*^-^*)
What I want to do together with my peers (^_-)-☆

<Creating a Space>

1. A relaxed and gentle space where everyone can talk, learn, and encourage each other while chatting about their thoughts and dreams, sometimes with a set theme⇒ "Relaxed Chat Session"

3. Providing learning opportunities ⇒ Planning workshops by inviting connected experts or those aiming to become experts to address things people want to learn or are struggling with ⇒"Dream Consultation Room" (*Concept is 👇️👇️!)

2. Creating a space for personal consultations ⇒ If there is something specific someone wants to talk about, I will create a space to listen, provide consultations, and offer support ⇒"Personal Dialogue"(Including providing a space for those who feel lonely)

<My Personal Specific Dreams>

1. As a childcare worker and someone with parenting experience, I will listen to and support those struggling with child-rearing. ⇒Parents, guardians, and childcare workers

2. As an end-of-life advisor, I will provide consultations and information regarding end-of-life planning. ⇒Things for the individual to work on, things for parents to work on, things for children to work on

3. If someone is struggling with family issues, I will help them think about how to rebuild those relationships. ⇒The choice to rebuild, the choice not to

There are things I have already started, and things I hope to be able to do someday.

I started studying for my dream and have earned new qualifications.
And I am still continuing to learn.

If there is anything I can do to help, I would like to put that to good use.

It's okay to have big dreams, right? (*^-^*)

But you know...

Something I always say ☆彡

I don't want to live a life where I sacrifice the present for the sake of the future.

That is different from not trying hard.

Being grateful for the small joys of every day,

Connecting with the people I love,

Connecting with friends and companions with whom I have comfortable relationships,

Feeling the changes of the seasons and being moved by them,

Being able to say I'm happy when something makes me happy,

Being able to express happiness as happiness,

Living each day with joy,

While being mindful of that way of living,

with my own kind of earnestness,

toward my dream,

I want to walk forward.

Living in that way is my dream.

And, my daily wishes are...

1. May my family all be smiling and enjoy their lives.

2. May the world be peaceful and may everyone live happily.

Including the things I always convey,

I have summarized my thoughts in order to participate in this project.

Finally,

To everyone who participated in this project, thank you so much for joining during this busy time at the end of the year.

I put my heart into providing small support and introducing the articles, and I would be happy if you could think of it as a small 'Christmas present' from me 🎄🎄

Also, I would like to express my gratitude to everyone who read the many dreams in this project, and to everyone who read my dream this time.

All these wonderful dreams are also aChristmas presentfor all of you 🎄🎄

And I will continue to support your dreams from here on out‼️

Have a wonderful Christmas.

「書いた人】

江村恵子＠夢応援・ゆるふわ雑談会です。

「恵子さん」と呼んでください。

⭐つなぎびと⭐ 元保育士／
1種幼稚園教諭／終活アドバイザー／
終活ライフケアプランナー／
身上監護アドバイザー／終活ガイド上級 ☆／
心理カウンセラー勉強中☆彡

好きなもの・好きなこと💓／
家族、旅行、自然、家庭菜園、空、新緑、花、
読書、俳句、おしゃべり、カーブス

尊敬する人／マザーテレサ

リアルでは
「終活アドバイザー群馬サークル」
代表。


オンラインでは、元保育者として、
母として、終活ワーカーとして
「素敵に生きる人生について」について
発信をしながら、
「ゆるふわ雑談会」を開催中。

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特に自分で撮った花や自然について 
投稿したり、 
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RTしたりしています。 

Noteとも共有で投稿することも多いです 

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