I want to cherish a space where we can talk with peace of mind❗
Last week, on Saturday, May 27th, from 8:00 PM,
the "Yurufuwa Dream💗 Counseling Room Chat Meeting" was held🎵
The theme for this time was
"Let's talk about family～💛"
"Let's talk about family"
In advance, we narrowed the theme down to two in our counselor meeting(1. About parents, 2. About children), and we discussed that we would take our time chatting while responding to the thoughts of those who speak.
However, as a result, the theme of "About parents" is a deep theme for everyone, so we ended up exceeding the scheduled time, and because it was important, we continued to talk without setting a time limit.
Everyone has a father and a mother.
But these thoughts and relationships with parents vary from person to person depending on the environment in which they grew up...
Even among those who participated this time,
"I am who I am today because of my parents. I am grateful for my family for the fact that I am alive now, and they are precious beings."
"I tried to improve the relationship, but I experienced a parting before I could do it sufficiently."
"I wasn't raised in a good environment by my parents, so I can't rebuild my relationship with them."
"The relationship is neither good nor bad."
and so on, it was very diverse.
But I think that for anyone, if they could live "raised warmly and loved by their parents, loving their parents as a child, and having a good relationship both in the past and in the future," wouldn't that truly be happiness?
Of course, I also think that there is no "this is how it should be" or "this is correct" regarding relationships with parents.
Parents are also beings different from oneself, with their own personalities.
Perhaps we have no choice but to grope for a relationship that is happy for ourselves.
It is okay for current feelings and future feelings to change.
Parents and oneself might change too.
Therefore,I think it is more important for me to make "choices that I will not regret for myself" than whether or not I rebuild with my parents.
So, what kind of choice is a "choice without regret"?
That will surely be different for each person. I think it is fine for it to be different.
I hope to continue providing a place where we can talk about our hearts, discuss, and accept each other with this theme.
I think that while talking and listening to stories, one can sometimes see their own way of life.
Also, although the time was short, we were able to talk a little bit about "relationships with children" and "relationships with new family members."
There were voices like "How should I handle the distance with my new family?" and
"I couldn't build a good relationship with my parents. But I love and trust the family I have now."
Perhaps we could have had even more joyful and happy conversations, but I hope we can continue to expand our casual chats on such themes.
In this chat meeting, due to time constraints, not everyone was able to fully express their thoughts, and I think everyone felt they didn't talk enough, so I hope that someday we can hold a chat meeting with the theme of "About family" again in a safe and secure place💛
I think the reason we were able to have such a deep discussion this time is because each participant trusted the "Dream💗 Counseling Room" as a "safe and secure place" and participated.
Furthermore, because all the participants were close to each person's thoughts and interacted warmly and kindly, I think that is why each person was able to express their thoughts with peace of mind.
I would like to express my heartfelt gratitude to all the participants.
<Impressions from the participants>
We received impressions after the chat meeting, so I will introduce them.
◎ The "Dream💗 Counseling Room" chat meeting, as warm as ever. I spent a relaxing and fun time. Thank you for letting me participate. It is entirely due to the personalities of Keiko-san, Yuzu-san, and Mamanosuke-san. I think everyone who participated felt their hearts lightened and returned to their respective lives. I will continue to support your activities!! May the hearts of as many people as possible be warmed even a little💖
◎ I was able to talk because it was a "safe and secure place," and the atmosphere of the place was full of compassion and filled with a sense of security. And I thought it was wonderful that it didn't become one-sided self-disclosure, and that people who gave comments also spoke from the heart. Thank you very much m(__)m
◎ Participating this time, it was good to be able to talk about my own thoughts that I hadn't talked about before, and to hear the deep feelings of everyone.
◎ It became a meeting where we could have deep talks. Everyone had a good look on their faces at the end! I couldn't see Yuzu-san's face, but I imagined she had a good look on her face. I was also very happy that all three counselors were there.
<Introduction of participants>
Introducing in the order of application! (Counselors are all together at the end!)
I will introduce them with the articles they introduced themselves when applying, or articles they posted after the chat meeting(*^-^*)
☆彡 Pepeshi-san
You joined us despite your busy schedule, saying, "Because I love the Dream Consultation Room."
Your gentle smile and warm words are wonderful every time.💛
You also opened your heart and talked about your own family.
You even sent us themes you'd like to discuss in the "Dream💗Consultation Room" in your feedback. I really hope we can hold those sessions. Please be sure to join us when we do. I will also be cheering for the NPO that Pepeshi-san is currently working on.
☆彡 Noriko Tonomura-san
I feel like you still had so much more to say!
Even so, your words to the other participants were so warm, and I was helped by your bright smile.
You have the highest number of "Dream Consultation Room" participations to date.🎵
You also made sure to promote the "Shun-hai" (Seasonal Cup) during your turn to speak.☆彡
You are also working hard on your studies to get a new qualification. I'm rooting for you!💛
☆彡 Yuta Natsuki-san
You joined us saying, "I was drawn to the theme of family." You trusted the "Dream💗Consultation Room" enough to share your own experiences and the gratitude you feel toward your family through them. Your way of listening while nodding along to what others are saying is charming every time. Thank you for your feedback article as well.🎵
You also shared themes you would like to talk about in the "Dream💗Consultation Room" in the future.
Let's have some fun and exciting chats to meet your expectations.
I'll be waiting for you whenever you have time.(*^-^*)
☆彡 Eva-san
You honestly shared your thoughts about your mother and your children, following the theme of this session.
The article you posted after the chat session☟ was also wonderful, and I am grateful for it.
You also shared themes you'd like to discuss in future "Dream💗Consultation Room" sessions. Eva-san, it seems like you're becoming a regular at the "Dream💗Consultation Room."
I'll be waiting for you again.
☆彡 Yuzu-chan
Although you couldn't show your face this time, you participated from start to finish. But just by hearing your voice, I could imagine the energetic Yuzu-chan in my head.
In the article below, you introduced the "favorite foods" of the participants that we added during the self-introductions, complete with images.🎵
You being well is also a source of support for me.
Your thoughtfulness and kind words are indispensable to the "Dream💗Consultation Room."
☆彡 Mamanosuke-chan
You took on many roles for this chat session, including creating the Canva visuals, timekeeping, and taking notes.
In addition to your busy work schedule, you are also working hard on practice for your upcoming "ballet recital." Mamanosuke-chan, you and your daughter are both such hard workers. Like Yuzu-chan, you are indispensable to the "Dream💗Consultation Room." That is exactly why you should cherish yourself, don't push yourself too hard, and don't overdo it.✨
☆彡 Keiko
This is Keiko, who felt like crying many times while watching the participants speak and seeing their expressions. "Family" is an important theme for me as well. I would love to keep talking about it.
I am grateful for the kindness and warmth of the two counselors and everyone who participated.💗
Thank you so much for participating and for your active conversation.<m(__)m>
This time, although you were scheduled to participate, my confirmation error meant the email didn't reach you, and you couldn't join.<m(__)m
I want to see Tsuru-sensei's gentle smile next time, so I will definitely be waiting for you.
I will also introduce Tsuru-sensei's article.(*^-^*)
I want to continue holding the "Dream💗Consultation Room" with all my heart, cherishing the fact that it is a "place to share thoughts" and a "safe and secure space."💗
Whether you participated this time or were unable to, if there are any themes you would like to discuss in the "Dream💗Consultation Room" in the future, please let us know in the comments section.
When we hold the next session, we will announce it on note, so we look forward to your participation.
(#^.^#)
Future sessions might become even more relaxed and laid-back due to various circumstances, but I look forward to the day I can see you all again.(^_^)/
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