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"That person has a big heart"
"I don't want to date a man with a small heart"
"I want to be a person with a big heart, but I don't know what to do specifically"

We often hear the phrase "having a big heart," but few people can explain what actually makes the difference.

I will explain the specific characteristics of men with a big heart and why they are highly rated by women.

[Difference 1] Do not blame others for their mistakes

A man with a big heart does not get emotionally angry even if a subordinate or junior makes a mistake.

It is easy to blame them by saying, "Why can't you even do this?"

However, a man with a big heart thinks together about "how to make it go well next time."

Points women are watching

Women are closely watching how men treat shop staff and subordinates.

• How they respond when an order is wrong at a restaurant

• How they speak to a junior when they make a mistake

• Their attitude toward people in a lower position than themselves

Men who yell or make sarcastic remarks here will see their evaluation drop instantly.

Conversely, men who can respond calmly are thought of as "someone I can feel safe with."

[Difference 2] Honestly admit your own faults

A man with a big heart can say, "Sorry, it was my fault," without making excuses when he is wrong.

The more pride a man has, the less he can admit his own faults.

They line up excuses like "but" or "because," or blame the other person.

This is a sign of a small-minded person.

The reason why men who can apologize honestly are strong

Admitting your own faults is not a weakness, but a strength.

• You are trusted because you don't make excuses

• Problem-solving becomes faster

• The other person can also be honest

Whether or not you can say the words "I'm sorry" significantly changes the quality of your relationships. Women are strongly attracted to men who possess this honesty.

[Difference 3] Being able to genuinely celebrate the success of others

Men with big hearts can celebrate when a colleague gets a promotion or a friend gets married without feeling jealous.

Small-minded men cannot honestly be happy for others' success. Somewhere in their hearts, they feel "frustrated" or "annoyed," and that shows in their attitude.

The charm of a man who doesn't get jealous

Men who can celebrate the success of others have the following charms:

• It feels good to be with them

• They don't give off a negative vibe

• They appear to have self-confidence

Women find jealous men to be "troublesome."

Conversely, they feel a sense of security with men who can share in the happiness of others.

[Difference 4] Not getting irritated by small things

Men with big hearts are not swayed by the trivialities of daily life.

The train is delayed, the convenience store checkout line is long, the Wi-Fi is slow.

If you get irritated by every little stress like this, it makes the people around you feel bad too.

A mindset to become a man who doesn't get irritated

To avoid getting irritated by small things, the following mindset is effective.

• Let it slide by saying, "Well, these things happen."

• Don't get angry at things you can't control.

• Ask yourself, "Will I remember this in a year?"

Men with big hearts can distinguish between things that are worth getting angry about and things that are not. Women feel the charm of an adult in this composed attitude.

[Difference 5] Do not bring up the past

Men with big hearts do not bring up a finished conversation over and over again.

Bringing up the past by saying things like "You said this back then" or "It was like this before, too" is proof of a small heart.

It is a state where the desire to blame the other person is winning.

The strength to let go of the past

Men who do not dwell on the past have the following strengths:

• The relationship moves forward.

• The other person does not feel intimidated.

• Constructive discussions can take place.

Women feel that they can be with a man for a long time if he does not bring up the past. Anyone would get tired if old stories were brought up every time there was a fight.

[Difference 6] Can give without seeking anything in return

Men with big hearts do not have the feeling of "I did this much for you."

Whether they pay for a meal or help with work, they do not expect anything in return. This attitude creates genuine composure.

Why men who give are popular

Men who do not seek anything in return are seen in the following ways:

• Have peace of mind

• Are not calculating

• Are easy to be around

Attitudes like "I treated you, so..." or "I helped you, even though..." put pressure on the other person. Men with big hearts enjoy the act of giving itself.

Summary

Men with big hearts do not blame, they acknowledge, they can be happy, they do not get irritated, they do not bring up the past, and they do not seek anything in return. Just by being conscious of these six things, your reputation will definitely change.