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Synchronicity of the Heart Realized Through Time-Lag Dream Analysis ①
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A brief review of the previous post (Dream summary)

In the previous post ①, I published the text of the dream diary.

It started with a quarrel at a flea market
I was holding with a friend at school,
and after moving to a cafe,
I confronted a mean girl.

The extras at the cafe also
had a suspicious vibe,
and it was a dream where an unsettling atmosphere
flowed throughout the entire thing.

This time, I will look back
at the state of things when I woke up
from the dream record at that time.

Physical sensations after waking up

This time it wasn't a lucid dream.
It was a dream where an unpleasant atmosphere
drifted from beginning to end.

This is what I extracted
almost exactly
from the dream diary record.

When keeping a dream diary,
it is important to record
not just the content of the dream,
but also the sensations when you wake up.

In reality, this dream
is not a lucid dream,
but I think it counts as a semi-lucid dream.

▶Even after waking up, the tension in my body does not go away

When I woke up,
my body was stiff.

Trying to wake up quickly,
I almost forgot the dream for a moment,
so I hurriedly closed my eyes again,
kept my body still,
and ruminated on the dream to remember it before writing it down.
That is what was recorded.

Time-lag dream analysis about 3 months later

Reading the record from when I woke up,
it was a very unpleasant dream,
so it seems likely that I tried to wake up quickly
as a psychological defense.

There is an impression that my body, heart, and head's thoughts
were out of sync.

If I had missed that split second upon waking and failed to memorize it,
I don't think I would have been able to
leave such a detailed record of the dream.

▶ Synchronicity immediately after a flea market item sold in the real world

While organizing and writing out my dream diary
about three months later, I noticed
the key item in the dream,
a high-priced flea market item.

A retro 8mm film projector.

This was something I was actually
selling on a flea market site in the real world,
and although several potential buyers appeared,
it remained unsold for a while, perhaps because of the high price.

Actually, this
just sold about a week ago.

I had completely forgotten
that it was related to this dream,
and I was surprised myself while writing it out.

Perhaps because it actually
sold on the flea market site,
I was finally ready to face
this dream at this timing, which is why I was able to
turn it into a note three months later,
I even think that might be the case.

I think it's safe to call this
a classic example of synchronicity.

▶ Experiencing the moment when reality and the unconscious connect

This dream is highly likely to be touching on my depth psychology,
especially the collective unconscious and
the nigredo (a mass of repressed, shadowed emotions and memories).

Overall, there are many symbols like an unpleasant atmosphere,
creepy smiles,
and violent sounds.

I have the impression that it is deeply connected
to the psychological violence and
repressive situations I experienced in the past.

At this timing, it
started moving toward sublimation.
I couldn't help but feel that way.

▶ The real thrill of time-lag analysis: Understanding only in hindsight

It is precisely because this is a time-lag analysis three months later
that synchronicity occurred,
and I am surprised myself!!

This is why dream analysis is interesting.
Time-lag analysis is surprisingly meaningful.
Things that weren't visible in the initial analysis
become visible again.

There are surprisingly many things
that you can notice or understand
only after some time has passed.

Dream Analysis Main Body (Summary)

From here on, I will post
the dream analysis in earnest.
I have summarized it in bullet points
in chronological order, following the story of the dream.

*Below are some points of caution*

Although I am writing analytically based on facts,
it may give an unpleasant impression to those who are sensitive to stimuli such as HSP,
those who are not good with scary things,
or those who have had similar experiences.
Please be careful.

Structural characteristics of the dream

• Act 1: School and the Flea Market

  • School often symbolizes a layer close to the personal unconscious.

  • While there are good memories of school,
    it is also a place easily connected to
    unpleasant memories and repressed emotions.
    

  • The interactions with A-kun and B-kun,
    while reflecting real-life relationships,
    project my own sense of responsibility, anger, and helplessness.
    

    
    

  • The scene where I suddenly throw away my wireless earphones may be related to the fact that I developed sudden sensorineural hearing loss in my left ear
    just as I entered the period of caring for my father at the end of his life.
    

    
    
  
  
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    After the hearing loss, my hearing did not fully recover. According to a post-script in my dream record, it seems I was using wireless earphones in the very left ear that developed the hearing loss.

    
    
  
  
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    The act of throwing the wireless earphones at A-kun is likely a substitute act for taking my frustration out on my father.

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    This is because my father also had hearing loss from a young age, and I felt that I had inherited his organic weakness in his ears.

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    It is particularly significant that the unsold flea market items in the dream
    
    were things my late father cherished.

  
  

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    There is a high possibility that this is linked to my relationship with my father, his influence, and my ear problems.

  
  

• Act II: Cafe Restaurant

  • Moving to a deeper layer,
    approaching the level of the collective unconscious.
    Descending a spiral staircase is the symbol for this.
    

  • People with Noh-mask-like smiles,
    mafia-style men, violent sounds, etc.,
    anonymous and mysterious entities
    appearing is a characteristic feature.

  • This may symbolize the cruelty and oppression
    of humanity in general, beyond personal memories.
    

    
    

• The scene with the girls

  • The ringleader girl who bullies,
    and the girls who are bullied.

  • This reflects
    both the perpetrator and victim aspectswithin me.

  • It is highly symbolic that the ringleader girl
    says lines that sound like excuses,
    which overlap with words my father said to me in the past.
    

Important theme

1. Relationship with my father

   • My father spoke in a loud, domineering voice and
     frequently used language bordering on
     moral harassment or domestic abuse.

   • My father had poor hearing, and his difficulty
     in understanding words
     led to his frustration and aggression.
     

   • I myself developed sudden sensorineural hearing loss while
     caring for and attending to my father at the end of his life,
     and I began to have
     problems with the hearing in my left ear.
     

2. Psychological gaslighting

   • Since I was a child, I have been
     extremely sensitive, and from a young age, I have had
     the trait of engaging in dialogue
     with internal characters.
     

   • However, I was not understood by my parents,
     was seen as a strange child,
     and was continuously psychologically invalidated.

   • The words the girl said in the dream
     overlap with the lines my parents (especially my father) often used.
     

     
     

3. Connection to Nigredo

   • Suppressed anger and sadness,
     and the pain of not being understood have formed a mass
     that appears in my dreams.

   • The scene at the end of the dream where I say "Stop it"
     to the girl
     shows my stance of trying to protect my inner victim.
     

The meaning of the dream's movements

• In my dream, I once
  stepped out of school (personal unconscious),
  and am diving back into the depths (collective unconscious).
  

• This can be called a semi-lucid dream movement,
  where I am trying to access deeper layers
  by my own will.
  

• The fact that I felt strong discomfort midway
  and tried to wake up
  is a type of psychological defense mechanism.

Interpretation

• This dream can be seen as indicating
  that I am trying to face
  past wounds and repressed emotions
  head-on.
  

• Although internal characters like Mepiru or Gigateku did not appear,
  now that doing self-work with them before sleep has become a daily routine,
  it can be said that I was prepared to dive into the depths again
  while being protected.
  

  
  
  

• This process is both dream analysis
  and self-healing work.

Important Realization

• Analyzing dreams is not just about my personal healing,
  but also about accessing the collective unconscious
  to decipher wounds.
  

  
  

• Reconstructing that into text
  and sharing it on note or X
  has the potential to lead to the healing of others as well.

Next Preview: This dream is also packed with information

Because the dream diary was so long,
the dream analysis also became an incredible amount.
Moreover, no matter how you look at it,
this dream is full of unpleasant content.

To those who read both ① and ②,
thank you so much.

But as I wrote at the end of the analysis,
since this seems to be a dream at the collective unconscious level,
it is highly likely that it will also work on the
deep psychology of those who read it.

If you felt anything or noticed anything,
please let me know in the comments.
That will surely lead to the healing of the entire collective consciousness.

Thank you for reading until the end.
I'm thinking of posting a summary of the analysis section next time.
Please forgive me if the schedule changes.
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