#83. The Reason Your Love Life and Marriage Hunting Never Seem to Work Out

Hello! Good evening! This is Mimi. I am sharing insights about the heart and happy partnerships from Argentina in South America.

“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.”

This is a famous quote by Einstein; have you ever heard it?

“Thinking” refers to your mindset, thought patterns, attitude, perspective, way of perceiving things, interpretation, stereotypes, and assumptions.

If this level of consciousness remains the same as when the problem occurred, the problem will never be solved. In other words,unless you change your level of consciousness, you cannot solve the problem.

For example, let's say you are struggling with the fact that your love life or marriage hunting isn't going well, you can't meet a wonderful man, or even if you do start dating, the relationship always falls apart eventually (and you consider that to be the problem).

According to the Einstein quote above, your worry or problem cannot be solved at the same level of consciousness that it was created at; it means you must change your level of consciousness to solve it.

In other words,if you want to solve that problem, you need to change your level of consciousness, or raise your level of consciousness.

What you need to change is your level of consciousness!!

And yet, most—no, really, a huge 99% of women struggling with love and marriage hunting—are not trying to change their level of consciousness, but are instead trying to change their partner or their own exterior. (In this case, the exterior refers to appearance, behavior, and dating or marriage hunting techniques.)

Of course, when I was struggling with my own love life, I was doing this for a loooong time.

But because my level of consciousness hadn't changed, no matter how much I tried to change the other person or my own exterior, even if something seemed to change temporarily, sooner or later, things would stop working out again. (I would end up worrying about the same problem.)

And so, for years and years, I would either be unable to meet a good person or unable to get a boyfriend. I would either be ashamed of myself and blame myself, or if I did get a boyfriend, I would just endure things and lament my own unhappiness. Or, I would keep enduring it, thinking it was better than breaking up and being alone, which only made me feel more miserable. I kept repeating this cycle.

Because my level of consciousness hadn't changed, I hadn't fundamentally solved anything at all, but because I was changing my partner or myself on the surface, I didn't even realize that I was just going around in circles with the same problem.

But when I realized this, at the age of 35, I finally decided,“I’m going to change my level of consciousness!”I made that commitment because I was truly, honestly, and deeply sick and tired of going around in circles with the same problem.

As a result of working hard to change my level of consciousness, I am now able to nurture a happy partnership.

Therefore, although the online courses I offer are categorized under love, marriage hunting, and partnerships,they all deal with the change and transformation of your level of consciousness (the fundamental and essential aspects needed to solve problems).

Unless you change your mindset, thought patterns, attitude, perspective, way of perceiving things, interpretation, stereotypes, and assumptions, no matter how much you change your partner, polish your appearance, or learn and use techniques, the result will be the same sooner or later.

I think some of you may have already started to realize this, and I believe those who have begun to notice are the ones who are becoming interested in my content and courses.

This time, if you are reading this and have concerns (things you consider problems) regarding dating or marriage hunting, I wanted to convey that unless you change your level of consciousness, unfortunately, those problems will never be solved no matter how much time passes. (Even if they seem to be solved temporarily, the same problems will arise again.)

If you want to change your level of consciousness and finally have a relationship or marriage where you are truly loved by a genuine partner forever, I am waiting for you in the [21-Day] Free Online Course!!

Today, too, I am rooting for your world filled with love!

Mimi

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