Is compatibility determined by stars...?

Is there such a thing as "compatibility" in Nine Star Ki?

I previously wrote that Nine Star Ki divides human nature into nine types.
There are stars that are the same "○ Star," and even if the "○ Star" part is different, there are stars that are connected and stars that are not. The words that resonate change depending on what you and the other person possess.

Are people with the same star compatible?

When I first learned Nine Star Ki, the first thing I was curious about was what star the people I interact with have. So, I looked up the people around me as much as I could.

The people I find easy to talk to and feel a connection with are, as expected, those with the Five Yellow Earth, Eight White Earth, or Two Black Earth stars.
They are in the same Earth group, and people with Earth stars like to talk about their own experiences and stories from the past, so we often end up having a lively conversation.
Especially with the Eight White Earth and Five Yellow Earth, even looking at combinations around me, they often get along well even if there is a large age gap.

Are people with different stars or from different groups incompatible?

If you focus on the word "compatibility" between stars, the idea of good or bad inevitably arises.
I mentioned at the beginning that there are stars that are connected and stars that are not.

In terms of the Five Yellow Earth,
The same group includes the Two Black Earth and Eight White Earth.
The stars that are connected are the Nine Purple Fire, Six White Metal, and Seven Red Metal.
The ones that are not connected are the One White Water, Three Blue Wood, and Four Green Wood.

So, are you incompatible with people whose stars are not connected?

That is definitely not the case.
Compared to talking with people in the same group or connected stars, there are often more differences in points of focus and perspectives. It can be said that being different makes misunderstandings more likely to occur.

For example, I once had an experience like this with a Four Green Wood person in the past.
We promised to go see a movie together and had made a reservation, but I got the time wrong.
By the time we arrived, it had already started, and when I hurriedly checked the time, I realized that I, a Five Yellow Earth, had misread it.

What were our respective thoughts at that time...?
I feel that the Five Yellow Earth tends to look back in time, thinking that if I had checked even once somewhere, this wouldn't have happened, focusing on the past, while the Four Green Wood tends to think about what to do from now on based on what is happening in the present.
And the exchange at that time went like this.

Five Yellow Earth (Me): "I'm sorry! I got it wrong! If I had checked before leaving the house, I would have noticed. Of all days... I'm really sorry."

Four Green Wood: "It's no use apologizing. You can't turn back time. Why don't we think about what to do from here?"

Regarding the fact that "the movie time had passed," we were looking at completely different things.

If I had realized that our perspectives were different like this, I think I could have switched gears quickly, but at the time, I didn't know about those differences, and I remember feeling very sad for a while with a sense of regret.

Even now that I know about Ki, I can't always switch gears immediately, but I feel that by knowing my own nature, I have become able to change my mood faster than before (because if I project a bad atmosphere, it will be transmitted to those around me).

This is just one example of what I felt, but I don't think compatibility can be determined by stars alone.
Just because stars are not connected does not mean that compatibility is bad.