If you're going to feel inferior, it's better to avoid TV and videos as much as possible
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Thank you very much for watching among so many options.
This time, I will talk about "If you're going to feel inferior, it's better to avoid TV and videos as much as possible."
What does the title mean?
In this day and age,
"TV📺"
"Video sites🎥"
have spread rapidly, making it possible for anyone to easily watch what they want, whether they are out or at home.
However, there is an unexpected downside to this.
That is
🙅♂️『気軽に劣等感を得やすくなってしまった』that is the case.
I will talk about that today.
In conclusion
✅【『あぁ…羨ましい…私はあんな風になれない…』と
劣等感を得るくらいなら、テレビや動画はなるべく観ない方が
いいです】Because it is easy to watch,
it has become easier to acquire
For example, TV and video sites are mostly filled with
✳️handsome actors
✳️idols
✳️models
✳️celebrities
✳️famous people in various industries
and other beautiful or cool people, or people who are active with their own beliefs.
Of course,
✳️these people are active because they worked hard, so you should learn what you can from them.
However,
🙅♂️《あぁ…才能があって羨ましい…
可愛くて、カッコよくて羨ましい…
活躍出来て羨ましい…私とは住む世界が違う…》🙅♂️You must never think this.🙅♂️
In other words
🈁《簡単に自分と比較が出来る様になり、
劣等感を得やすい環境になったのです》Therefore, if you are going to compare yourself to them and feel inferior, it is better to avoid TV and video sites as much as possible.
If you cannot avoid watching,
change your way of thinking after watching
That said, it might be difficult to stop watching entirely, so I have a recommended method here.
That is, after watching,
✳️【私も必ず活躍出来る】to think that way.
You might be thinking,
『❓❓❓』
If you take it a step further,
⭕️【同じ人間だから、私にも出来るはず❗️】と思う事です。『Are you serious about that❓』
You might be laughed at, but this is a fact.
In other words, comparing yourself and feeling inferior means
😮💨you are telling yourself, "I can't do it..."
That is👇
🙅♂️a loss of trust in yourself, meaning you are creating the trigger for "losing confidence" yourself.
That is why you need words to apply to the next step.
This topic has parts that connect to content I posted previously, so I will include it here.
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In other words, when you watch someone who is active,
🙅♂️『I am losing...』
👇instead of👇
🙆♂️『I still need to work harder』🙆♂️
It is important to think this way.
It changes significantly depending on your words and actions after watching.
First, let's make our words more positive.
I would like to leave you with these final words.
They are the words of marathon runner Yuko Arimori.
The difference between someone who is always reaching for more and someone who thinks, 'I'm fine as I am,' is
huge.
Do not let yourself feel inferior; always keep reaching.
By believing in your own potential, you can thrive.
I sincerely hope that this article will lead to your further growth.
In summary:
1️⃣With the spread of TV and video sites, it has become easier to feel inferior. One way to avoid feeling inferior is to watch them as little as possible.
2️⃣If you do watch them, learn what you can.
However, stop thinking, 'Compared to me...'
3️⃣'I still have a long way to go.'
'I can succeed.'
Live your life always reaching for more.
That is also a way to avoid feeling inferior.
🈁《自分と他人を比べてもしょうがない。
大事なのは、『自分も出来る』と
信じてあげることである》
That is all.
I will post again on 6/10.
You can also view my past posts, so I would be happy if you took a look.
My article was introduced by Kishakoku-sensei 🌈, a current high school teacher and former news reporter ✨, who follows back ✅, has 310,000 monthly views ✅, and 1,000 subscribers to the Working Teacher Magazine ✨.
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My article was also introduced by Kantoku 《Operating Time-Saving Reading x Book Cafe》 🏋️, 126th consecutive day of posting 😊.
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