You should tell others what you want to do. Otherwise, they will never understand.
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Thank you very much for visiting from among so many options.
Today, I will talk about why "you should tell others what you want to do; otherwise, they will never understand."
If you don't tell others what you want to do, you won't be able to gain experience.
It is extremely important to tell others what you want to do.
(I have explained this in a past article as well. Please take a look if you'd like.)
Ultimately, the other person"What are you thinking, and what do you want to do?"
cannot grasp all of that.
That is certainly true.
We cannot grasp everything the other person is thinking without them saying anything.
For example,
*️⃣That person seems like they want to go to the HR department...
*️⃣That person is good at talking, so maybe they want to do sales...
This is nothing more than speculation.
If you actually ask them,"No, I don't want to do that."is a common response.
And, you won't be able to gain experience in what you want to do.
For example,
❌Even though I want to study labor affairs because I want to go to the HR department, they focus on teaching me how to create sales floor displays.❌Even though I want to study how to improve sales performance, they teach me completely irrelevant methods for managing subordinates.
Such things can happen.
With this, you cannot gain the experience necessary for what you truly want to do.
Today, I will talk about the "importance of telling others what you want to do."
In conclusion,
✅There are many benefits to telling others what you want to do.
If you think, "They will probably understand," the day they understand will never come.
That is precisely why you should tell others what you "want to do."
If you work proactively, your experience level will change.
First, I will talk about the importance of telling others what you "want to do."
If you tell others what you want to do,
✳️it will lead to receiving work opportunities in some form.
That is because "you wished for it and spoke up."
Based on that, your boss and the company will approach you so that you can gain the necessary experience.
And, by speaking up proactively,
🈁《Even if the work content is the same, the experience gained will change.》
"Executing proactively"is what has meaning.
This is because 🧠the brain prefers a state of "fun."
For example,
✳️You continue playing a game you decided was "interesting" until you clear it.
✳️You don't stop reading a manga you decided was "fun" until you finish it.
I think everyone has had experiences like this.
In other words,
✅[Working without telling others what you want to do makes you "passive."
However, if you tell others what you want to do and work, the feeling of 'I have something I want to do. Therefore, I want to learn a lot' will sprout, making it fun, and your actions will become 'proactive.']
Stating what you want to do also has these benefits.
Don't wait, go out and seize opportunities.
I believe in the romantic notion that "someday someone will find me," but I also believe in this:
🈁《Opportunities are things you seize for yourself.》
You cannot seize opportunities by waiting for them.
You must take action yourself—that is, be proactive and go after them.
For that reason, it is important to express yourself in words to others.
For example, by putting what you want to do into words,
✅“Alright! If that's the case, I'd like to entrust this job to you!!”
You might have work entrusted to you by the other person like that.
This is an opportunity you seized because you spoke up, isn't it?
That is precisely why,
✳️Stating what you want to do = Creating opportunities
This is how the equation is formed.
For those who have been unable to say what they want to do until now, keeping it inside your heart is a huge waste.
【Tell the other person】
Just by doing that, things will start to change.
That is why you should go ahead and communicate what you want to do.
I sincerely hope that my posts will lead to your future growth.
In summary:
1️⃣ If you don't put what you want to do into words, opportunities won't come your way, and you won't gain the necessary experience.
2️⃣ By taking proactive action, the experience you gain will change.
3️⃣ Opportunities are things you seize for yourself. Don't keep them hidden in your heart; tell others.
🈁《Telling others what you want to do is nothing to be ashamed of.
The most shameful thing is to let days go by while lying to yourself, only to realize later that you are in a situation that cannot be undone.》
That is all.
I will post again on 8/14.
Introduction to past articles
You can view past posts here, so I would be happy if you could take a look.
Thank you very much for reading until the end.
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