[Questionnaire Distribution] 10 Questions for Those Living with a Love That Feels Distant
These are questions for people who are in love with someone who lives in a different world or holds a different position than themselves.
For example—
・Manga or anime characters
・Celebrities, famous people, or historical figures
・Someone important you can no longer meet
・Entities you cannot exchange words with (inanimate objects, etc.)
If you are someone who truly loves such a person, would you please share your thoughts with me?
I am sure that those whose hearts resonate with these questions have thought something like this before:
“Even so, I want to keep loving them.”
“Even if it doesn't reach them, I want to cherish these feelings.”
I created these questions for you, who live while facing such a love.
Please use them to organize your feelings or to face them with care.
Perhaps your words might become a source of support for someone else who holds the same feelings.
10 Questions for Those Living with a Love That Feels Distant
What kind of person are you in love with?
What was the moment you realized these feelings were love? Please tell me the story of how you became aware of your love.
Have you ever felt the “difference in worlds” between you and that person? When was that?
Have you ever felt unsettled or heartbroken because of the distance?
At such times, how do you face those feelings?
Have you ever talked to anyone about this love? If you were able to talk about it, or if you couldn't, please tell me the reason.
Is there anything you wish to be or how you wish to be through this love?
When anxiety or jealousy sprouts within you, what happens to you? Also, how do you regain your composure?
What kind of presence is this love to you?
If you could give one word to your current self, what would you say?
[Source note: @meme_froma]
Requests for answering
If you are someone who loves a person who lives in a different world or holds a different position than you, please feel free to answer.
These are not questions for 'yumejoshi' or 'yumedanshi' (dream girls/boys).Those who enjoy the 'yume' genre as content are not the target audience.
These questions are for facing sincere feelings of love. Mockery or any behavior thathurts feelings of love is strictly prohibited.
If you use these questions to post on note or social media, when posting your answers, pleasebe sure to include the following sentence at the end of your text.
Source note: @meme_froma
Claiming these as your own work (acting as if you created these questions) is prohibited.
Including a link is optional.
Of course,you are also welcome to answer only the parts you wish to.
Answering in private is also very welcome. Even if you don't show it to anyone and simply answer quietly within your own heart, it is meaningful enough.
The designated hashtag is#10QuestionsForADistantLove. Your wisdom and emotions might gently support the hearts of others.
Please cherish your love, in your own words.
And,
may that love lead
to your own happiness.
My answers are here