The magic of how who you are with changes your life 🩷 How to choose the 'people by your side' who color your every day 🧚‍♀️

Hello, my lovely everyone 🩷

Today, I'm going to talk about how important it is to consider 'who you are with' 🧙‍♀️✨

Please lend me your heart's ear for a moment. Depending on who you spend your time with, your days will start to take on color before you even realize it 🩷

1) The magic of mood contagion (emotional contagion)
When you're around someone who is smiling, you naturally start to smile too, right?
Conversely, if you're with someone who is always on edge, you get tired.
Emotions are contagious, so choosing people with a calm mood will make your days feel lighter 😊

2) Receiving the recipe for habits (environment creates habits)
The habits of the people you are with eventually become your own habits.
Book lovers, early risers, creative companions... placing yourself where the 'you you want to be' is makes it easier to get closer to that version of yourself 📚🌱

3) The mirror of values (your 'norm' grows)
Who you are with changes what is 'normal' for you.
If you are with people who value kindness, you will become that way too. Conversely, if your values don't align, you'll get tired, so choose companions who protect your core.

4) People who knock on the door of growth (teacher/mentor effect)
When you are with someone who is a little further ahead, doors can suddenly open.
Advice and guidance become magic keys that significantly expand your potential 🗝️

5) The nest of peace (a presence that gives you resilience)
When you have someone you can rest your wings with when you're tired, your recovery is faster.
People who become a place where you belong are treasures.
Only when you are protected can you fly again 🕊️

6) The chain of opportunities (the power of networking)
'People bring people.'
Good connections, work, and accidental opportunities often come through other people.
So, if you carefully nurture your surroundings, unexpected good fortune will come your way 🎁

7) Boundaries are important (the courage to say NO)
Choosing who you are with also means deciding what you will not accept.
Being able to gently set boundaries is an essential skill for an adult witch 🛡️

8) The spice of diversity (the stimulation that different colors provide)
Birds of a feather are comforting, but interacting with people from different worlds broadens your perspective. If you want to live creatively, having at least one friend of a different color will spark new ideas 🎨

I'll leave you with Masha's 'Who are you with?' checklist.
Try it with your heart's compass.

Check it out 🧚‍♀️
🩷 Does your heart feel lighter when you are with them?
🩷 Do your good habits continue when that person is nearby?
🩷 Do they stay by your side when you are feeling weak?
🩷 Is there something about them you can respect?
🩷 Do you feel like you don't shrink when you are with them?

If you have many YES answers, that person is your ally. If you have many NOs, try to have the courage to distance yourself.
That is also a part of self-love.

🧚‍♀️ Little Magic Work 🧚‍♀️
7-Day 'People I Was With' Diary

Every day, think of just one person you were with that day, and write down how you felt in just three lines.
After 7 days, the people who give you energy and the people who tire you out will become clear.

Finally, a word from Masha the magician.
'Who you are with' is a magic you can choose 🧚‍♀️
Sometimes, it's okay to have the courage to prune (distance yourself).
What's important is to be conscious of the flowers you want to bloom in your garden (heart), and to choose the soil and water for that purpose. If you do that, your days will become gentler and more sparkling 🌷✨

See you later. From Masha the magician 🧚‍♀️💫