No More Hesitation 🩷 A Gentle Magic to Grow Your “Self-Decision” and “Decisiveness” 🩷

Hello, my lovely ones 🩷

Today, I’m going to talk about “making up your mind” 🩷🧙‍♀️

What does it mean to make up your mind?

Making up your mind means
firmly marking your feelings by saying, “This is the path I choose!”
From small things to big things,
it is a very important magic where you take the steering wheel of your own life into your own hands.

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Why is it hard to make up your mind?

When you are making up your mind,
various anxieties and hesitations arise, like “What if I make a mistake?” or “What will everyone think?”
That is because

・The desire not to fail
・The expectations and gazes of those around you
・Losing sight of your own true feelings
・The desire not to regret your choice after making it
・The excitement and fear of change
are all mixed together.

Magic for making up your mind

1. The magic of finding your true feelings

Ask your heart quietly in a peaceful place,
“What do I really want to do?”
It starts by cherishing your own small voice,
not the voices or common sense of those around you.

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2. The magic of writing a letter to your future self

Try writing a letter to your future self asking,
“What kind of future will it be if I make this choice?”
If you can imagine an exciting future, that path is surely perfect for you.

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3. The magic of consulting someone you trust when you are lost

When you can’t decide even after thinking by yourself,
try consulting your family, friends, teachers, or seniors.
Advice from a different perspective
can sometimes lead to new hints and peace of mind.

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4. The magic of weighing pros and cons

Try writing down the “good points” and “bad points” on paper.
When you see them and compare them, your mind will be organized,
and you will see what you truly value.

5. The magic of practicing with small decisions

Big decisions can be nerve-wracking, but
try practicing “deciding for yourself” with small things
like “What should I wear today?” or “What should I have for a snack?”
The more experience you have choosing for yourself, the stronger your power to make up your mind will become.

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6. The magic of trusting your intuition

Your intuition that says, “I just feel like this is the right way!”
might actually be a sign from deep within your heart.
Sometimes it is important not to overthink with your head and just follow your heart’s voice.

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7. The magic of turning every choice into the “right answer”

Sometimes you might think, “Maybe it was wrong after all…” after you’ve made a choice.
But you know, on any path,
if you can think, “I chose this path myself,”
that experience will surely become your treasure.
Failures and regrets are all magic for growth.

8. The magic of enjoying change

When you make up your mind, new worlds and encounters might be waiting for you.
It might be a little scary, but
try to get excited thinking, “What kind of adventure is about to begin?”
Change is a chance to make you even more wonderful.

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9. The magic of cherishing your own pace

Even if everyone around you is deciding things quickly,
it is okay to think, “I am fine at my own pace.”
You don’t have to rush; it is okay to take your time to make up your mind.

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10. The magic of praising yourself for deciding

No matter how small it is,
give yourself a big hug and praise yourself for “deciding on your own!”
That accumulation will become your courage when making big decisions.

The world that expands when you make up your mind

When you make up your mind and take a step forward,
you might encounter scenery you didn’t know before or a new version of yourself.
Even if you get lost or fail,
if it is a path you chose yourself, you will surely be okay.

Every small decision
is an important magic that colors your life.

May your heart
shine gently and brightly today as well 🩷

See you later 🩷🧙‍♀️🪄✨