Your true worth cannot be measured by the number of 'likes'✨
Your worth is
more wonderful than a diamond💎✨
What is more important than the 'number of likes'♡
It has been one month since I started note.
At first, the number of 'likes' on my articles was exactly 6.
Huh, is that low?
But when I saw that, I was happy.
“Even though I was unknown, 6 people liked my post!”
☆*:.。. o(≧▽≦)o .。.:*☆ I thought^^
Certainly, there are articles that get hundreds or thousands of
“likes.”
That is amazing.
But just because of that,
number of likes does not equal self-worth is not true.
Number of likes ≠ Self-worth
・Number of likes
・Your own worth


“Likes” are just numbers!
Your worth → More wonderful than a diamond💎✨
In the first place, SNS is designed to satisfy
people's need for self-importance.
Those who have read the famous bestseller book “Smartphone Brain”
will understand this well, but
likes on note, or
the number of likes on Instagram,
are designed and crafted so that
you feel “joy” through brain pleasure chemicals,
and so that you stay on SNS longer.
Without knowing it, users
feel as if
their own worth has increased when those “likes” and follower counts go up.
But is that really the case?
One month ago when I started note,
the number of likes might have indeed been low.
As I wrote at the beginning, it was about 6.
But...
Rather than thin content <rich content
even if it is content I am sending out to the world,
it is worth reading for the reader, and
what is important is,
more than the number of likes,“quality of content” right?

It's like a Johari window.
Is it easier to understand with a diagram like this?
My article with 6 likes
was not bad in content.
I “trust” the expressions that come from within me.
I am very proud of the writing I did,
and I remember all the content I wrote.
What I want to convey,
how to make it understood,
how I can express it in my own way,
I am still enjoying doing that even now♪

Above all, I wanted to cherish those 6 readers
who pressed “like” for me when I was a super beginner.
As a result, the number of “likes” gradually increased,
and my followers increased too.
I am about to reach 300 people!
(Thank you!!🩷☆*:.。. o(≧▽≦)o .。.:*☆)
But that is not because my worth has changed.
“Reader needs” and “my own style”
overlapped in just the right way♪
The number of “likes” isn't everything!
I think “likes” have various meanings.
There is “I empathize!” and
there is also the light feeling of “That's nice!”.
Perhaps there are even people who pressed it
just by looking at the title.
Reader evaluations vary. But that is OK^^
Just as you have the right to live freely,
others also have the right to live freely.
By respecting and accepting that,
the number of likes stops being an issue.

Besides...
Your worth is not determined by the number of 'likes'!★
Your true worth remains unchanged; you are
'wonderful,' 'lovely,' and 'a presence of love'🩷
Whether on social media or
in person,
it is about you loving and trusting yourself,
and what you give and what you receive.
As I continue with note,
I have become more conscious of my readers' needs.
Thankfully, note provides
free access analytics,✨
so I use them as a reference when writing articles.
In doing so,
'what I want to write' and 'what readers are looking for'
I have started to find a balance between the two.

Authenticity × Reader Needs = Content that reaches people
I read something like this in a book once.
'What I want to write and what readers want are different.
When I wrote what I wanted to write,
to my surprise... there was no reaction.
So I started writing what readers want.
Then it started selling like wildfire.'
Ah, I think salespeople and marketers
understand this well...
That's right.
But if you focus too much on 'other people's perspectives'
without including 'your own authenticity,' it won't resonate with people's hearts.
What's important is finding that exquisite balance. It's not something you figure out in one go or in a single day;
it's something you build through trial and error.

Was the wonderful city of Rome
built in a single day?
Non, that's not right, is it?
Rome was not built in a day🇮🇹
I believe worth is something you deepen.
Or rather,
because you polish and deepen the radiance of your individuality,
it becomes a wonderful value.
Instead of being swayed by the number of 'likes,'
what is important is trusting the words that come from within yourself
more than anyone else.
Your worth is
brighter than a diamond, after all♡

May you be happy today as well🩷
To all my readers,
your 'likes' and comments
are a huge encouragement!!✨
Thank you so much!!
☆*:.。. o(≧▽≦)o .。.:*☆
I look forward to your continued support♪
LOVE🩷HUG

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