Why I rarely say the word 'busy'

Busy, busy.
I have tried not to use those words. Since when?

Maybe since about two years ago?

People often talk about the meaning of 'losing one's heart' (a play on the kanji for busy), and I realized that it is truly the case.

Because words come back to you.
Because words become your self-image.

If I don't like being a busy person, I use the word even less.
As I kept doing that,
my feelings when seeing others say they are busy also started to change.

Being busy is a feeling born from words.
In other words, it's all in your head.
When people say they are busy, it's not about not having time, so
what is it that they really don't have?
I think
it is a state of lacking the experiences, trials, and skills necessary to create peace of mind.The lack of experience, trials, and skills

is of course related to sudden environmental changes. Things you cannot control yourself can also be the trigger.

But in any state,
precisely because you are busy, if you try to learn new experiences, trials, and skills, you might start to feel a sense of fulfillment even though you have more to do, despite having thought you had no time at all.

Instead of just spending time saying you are busy, if you move forward with a new perspective, you can see more clearly the unnecessary things that were the cause of your busyness. There might be moments where you have more to do temporarily, but you can view it positively as a necessary process. Because you are choosing new things and perspectives of your own will.

To summarize

When you say you are busy, busy,
it is when you are being moved more by your surroundings and environment than by your own choices.
It is not that you are busy, but that you feel busy.

If you continue to say you are busy, busy,
just as you feel,
you arebrainwashing yourself and imprinting it into your self-image.
Since you surely won't feel like starting anything new, you will gradually lose your peace of mind.

Busy, busy, busy.

When I hear these words,
I always think,
ah, they are brainwashing themselves.

Actually, I am the type of person who is often asked by those around me,
Are you busy?
That is precisely why I make an effort not to use the word myself.

When do you all feel busy?

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