Does your baby cry and hate bath time? 7 solutions you can try today and basic techniques for beginner moms
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The conclusion that will make things easier starting today
When a baby cries and hates bath time, these three things usually help them settle down.
1 Lower the temperature and reduce stimulation
2 Reassure them by telling them what you are going to do
3 Don't force them to get used to it; take it in small steps
It makes us panic when they cry, but the cause is often a small trigger, so sometimes just changing how you set things up can make a difference.
Common reasons why they suddenly start hating it
Since babies cannot explain things in words, a small unpleasant experience can easily stick with them. For example:
・They were startled by the sound of the shower
・The water was too hot
・Soap got in their eyes, or water got in their nose or ears
・They were sleepy and felt uncomfortable when they got in
First, try to set things up with the mindset of resetting any points that might have been unpleasant.
7 coping ideas
1 Lower the water temperature by 1–2°C
The target is around 38–40°C. It is safer if it feels a little lukewarm to an adult. Having a thermometer makes it easier.
2 Change the timing of the bath
They are more likely to be fussy when they are sleepy, hungry, or engrossed in play. Just shifting it to a time when they are in a good mood can make a difference.
3 Increase the amount of verbal warning
The trick is not to do things suddenly.
I'm going to pour water on you now
I'm going to wash your feet first
Say things like this briefly before you move.
4 A step-by-step strategy starting from the hands and feet
For children who are afraid of water, it is easier to progress if you take small steps, like just the hands today, and up to the feet tomorrow.
5 Use protective tools if they dislike their face being washed
They tend to cry if they are afraid of water getting on their face. Prepare a towel to wipe it off quickly, and if it does get on them, wipe it off immediately and reassure them that it's okay.
6 It's okay to have days where you finish quickly even if they are crying
At first, I waited until they calmed down, but they wouldn't stop crying at all, and I ended up feeling exhausted. Once I switched to washing only the necessary parts quickly and finishing with a cuddle, I was able to protect my own peace of mind. It's okay not to be perfect every day.
7 Turn it into a game
When they are absolutely refusing, asking them nicely can sometimes work.
Where is the bath? Can you show me?
Excuse me, I'm playing bathhouse...
The point is to flip the 'fun' switch first. 🙂
Routine for days when you are worried about bathing alone
Preparation is 80% of the work.
・Don't let the dressing room or bathroom get cold
・Line up clothes, towels, and moisturizer beforehand
・Secure a waiting spot for the baby and use a belt
・Wash yourself quickly before washing the baby
・It's okay to keep the bath time short, around 3 minutes
Caution
Never take your eyes off them in the bathroom, even for a second. Be especially careful of slippery floors and overheating. If an older sibling is also in the bath, it is safer to keep the water level shallow.
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Summary
If your baby hates bath time, try lowering the temperature slightly, giving them a heads-up to reassure them, or taking it one step at a time. Starting with these three is enough.
On days when it's just impossible, it's okay to just wipe them down with a wet towel or wash only the areas that get dirty easily. The best method is the one that doesn't break your spirit as a mom.
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