🌈 What I valued more than ✨ what to do... ✨

Following up on my greeting the other day

When I thought about writing after a long time

I wondered how I used to write

and tried to trace my memories😓

This time, just a little bit

about parenting🍏

When children start to develop a sense of self
or go through puberty

or show signs of becoming independent

when there are changes like that

I feel a change in the distance between us👣

As a parent

it can be a little lonelyor I might not be used to the distance

and there are times when I
cannot keep upwith the children's changes, aren't there?😢

At times like that

I try to remember what is truly important.

What should I do?

I was sometimes asked that.👂

I wondered what I should do,
and thought about it.💡

I also tried to remember
how I had been in the past.😊

One thing I realized was

rather than

what to do,

what not to do

might have been what I valued more.

That is what I realized.✨

Love is

often

about doing something.

I feel like it's easy to convert😆

Because that's easier to understand💡

Doing something is

of course a wonderful thing, so、、、

I am also

the type who ends up doing quite a bit😅

Even so

I decided on things not to do🎵

Specifically,
I think it's surely different for everyone,
but、、、

Unnecessary things

　　　　don't do

　　　　don't listen to

　　　　don't say

I feel like this is what I was unconsciously
careful about🤲

It's better not to get involved right now

It's better not to ask right now

It's better not to say anything right now

With that kind of feeling

I will watch over them gently

This is actually quite difficult💦

When something happens

Sometimes the child will come and tell me

And sometimes the child will process it on their own

I keep myself ready to accept them at any time

Whether or not it's my turn to step in

Even if I was worried, I didn't show it

Without breaking my stance of trust

With an atmosphere of being calm and composed✊

Although there is frustration

Watching over the children's growth

I thought there are times when that is important

as I spent my days✨

Even if I was nervous inside💧

In the blink of an eye
the children grow up

For the children who will go on to
live in their own worlds

I hope I can gently support
their first steps toward independence

That is what I think🤗

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