What is a 'good child'?

⭐️ What kind of child is a 'good child'?

I thought,
could it be that 'good child' actually has two meanings?
😅

Doesn't that
make you a little nervous?

⭐️ A good heart?

'Kokorone' (inner nature)

means

one's 'true heart' or 'deepest feelings',
so

'having a good heart' means

being kind or

being sincere or

having qualities that

make one respectable as a person.

That is the impression.

In many cases,
we use'good child' in this sense, don't we?
😊✨

⭐️ Convenient?

A 'convenient child' is
for the convenience of adults.

It is not for the child's convenience, but for the convenience of adults
such as parents and teachers.

A child who is easy to manage

And that is sometimes

It is easy to become
a convenient child😫

⭐️In my experience

Since I was little,
being a 'good child'was something I thought
was important💦

For my parents,

social standing and
how others perceived them

were very important.

Being a 'good child'
sometimes became a stress
that weighed heavily on me😨

If I wasn't a 'good child',
my parents would get moody
or get angry at me, so
I couldn't stop being one💧

Even after becoming an adult,
it was painful because

I had attached the idea that
I should be a 'good person'

as an extension of being a 'good child'😫
It was unconscious, you know~💦

It took quite a long time, but

I'm glad I realized that~✨😊

⭐️For children,

without realizing it,
they can become a 'convenient child'💦

They watch their surroundings closely,
or are considerate...

If a child is holding back,
pushing themselves too hard,
or trying hard to be that way,

You have choicesI want to tell them that💌✨

If you feel uncomfortable, you can even express it as

I refuse to be a 'convenient child'

✨

⭐️ What is a 'good child'?

That is a wonderful thing.✨

They might be fully receiving
love from their parents.💕

They might be children
trying hard to receive love.😂💦

Even though they are both called 'good children',
I deeply realized
that they are different in this way.

If you are going to say something to them,
instead of 'You're a good child',
I want to convey

their specific
wonderful qualities✨
instead.😄

'You're kind'
'You brighten up the room'
'Thank you for being so helpful'
'You're so thoughtful'
・
・
・
I feel that conveys my thoughts
much better.💛✨

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for reading until the end😆

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