[Psychological Explanation] The Relationship Between Shame and Pleasure: Why 'Hidden Desires' Become Stronger - Deepening Series, Deep Layer Edition Vol. 3
A series that puts the depths of human emotion into words
Human emotions have
parts that have not yet been put into words.
Desires that cannot be explained.
Pleasures that have no known reason.
And emotions that you do not want to show anyone.
In this series
Desire × Emotion × Fetishism
through this theme,
we put the structure of human deep psychology into words.
If you
・Want to understand your own desires
・Want to organize your emotions
・Want to know the psychological structure of fetishism
If you feel that way,
this series will surely be useful to you.
Deepening Series MAP (Series List)
In this series,
we explain the deep structure of desire in stages.
Deep Layer Edition Vol. 1
Where does desire come from?
Deep Layer Edition Vol. 2
The structure of pleasure
Deep Layer Edition Vol. 3
The relationship between shame and pleasure (this time)
Deep Layer Edition Vol. 4
The deep structure of desire (next time)
By reading through the series,
the mechanism of desire will become visible in three dimensions.
Why do 'shameful emotions' remain so strongly?
People
do not easily forget shameful experiences.
That is because
Because the emotional energy is strong.
The human brain
has a property of linking strong emotions with memories
.
For example
・Embarrassing experiences
・Secret experiences
・Intense nervousness
These events
remain as strong memories.
In other words
shame is an emotion that strengthens memory
.
The reason why hidden things become more attractive
In psychology
the more something is forbidden, the more attractive it becomes
is a phenomenon.
For example
・Things you must not look at
・Things kept secret
・Things that are hidden
These objects
attract more interest than ordinary things.
This is because the human brain
unknown = value
because that is how we judge it.
In other words,
desire becomes stronger when it is hidden
.
Denied desires do not disappear
There is one more important thing.
That is,
desire does not disappear even when denied
.
Rather,
the more it is denied,
the deeper the desire sinks.
Humans have
an instinct to protect their own emotions
.
Therefore,
even if suppressed on the surface,
desire
grows stronger on the inside.
The structure from which fetishism is born
Fetishism does not
emerge suddenly.
In many cases,
・Strong emotions
・Shame
・Prohibition
・Memory
these combine to
form it.
For example,
a certain experience
was embarrassing.
But at the same time, it was exciting.
When these two are linked,
the brain saves it
as a special emotion
as.
This
can sometimes be
the initial trigger for fetishism.
Why do shame and pleasure connect?
The emotion of shame
・Tension
・Anxiety
・Heart-pounding
includes things like these.
Actually, these are
emotions very close to excitement and pleasure
.
Therefore
shame and pleasure are
easily linked.
Many fetishes have
shame × pleasure
as a structure.
What is deepening?
What I want to convey in this series is
that desires can be understood
is the point.
Desire is
neither abnormal
nor bad.
It is
one form of human emotional energy
is.
What is important is
not to deny it, but to understand it.
understand it.
That is
the theme of this series,
deepening
is.
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Deepening Series: Deep Layer Edition Vol. 4
The Deep Structure of Desire
Where does
desire come from?
Why do people
find themselves attracted to different things?
Why, from a certain moment,
do specific emotions or objects
remain so strongly in the heart?
Desire is not a coincidence, but
memory,
emotion,
experience,
and the unconscious
all overlap,
forming little by little.
Next time
Deepening Series: Deep Layer Edition Vol. 4
"The Deep Structure of Desire"
How is desire born,
and how does it take shape?
We will
deconstruct that structure even further.
Deepening goes
even further inward.
Finally
In this series,
• Desire
• Emotion
• Fetishism
• Psychological structure
are discussed.
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By reading through the series,
the deep structure of desire will gradually become visible.
Thank you for reading
until the end.