[With Self-Diagnosis] Mario and Princess Peach 👑 Which Type Are You?

When I was a child, I envied Princess Peach!

The existence of someone like Mario who rushes to your side when you say "help me"

must be because you can feel like a baby who is just given things without losing anything.

The Super Mario movie I watched on Netflix during summer vacation.

Princess Peach, seen through my adult eyes now,
was, surprisingly, not just someone to be protected.

It is precisely because she has the confidence gained from training herself that

she can fully believe and say, "Mario, you can definitely do it."

This "strength of complete belief" is not something easily achieved.

Rather, it is something born only from long-term accumulation and self-trust.

As someone with a very strong eldest-daughter personality, I feel that this strength of Princess Peach is not a sensation I can obtain unconditionally.

The Mario and Peach within you

Actually, both Mario and Peach are "within yourself."

I was able to realize that, after all, from the experience of my marriage not going well.

Mario = The power to take action

Listen to what you want and move to make it happen.

The power to pave the way and shoulder responsibility.

Peach = The power to receive

Believe that "they will surely make it happen" and confidently obtain what you want.

The power to entrust and believe.

Like Princess Peach, I want to continue accumulating experiences where I can believe that "I can get what I want."

Self-Diagnosis 🌟

Please answer the following questions intuitively.

1. What do you do when you are in trouble?

A. Try to handle it yourself → Mario type

B. Able to ask someone for help → Peach type

2. When starting something new?

A. Even if anxious, you move first → Mario type

B. You get into the groove when invited to start → Peach type

3. In relationships?

A. You are admired by younger people or juniors → Mario type

B. You are cherished by older people or seniors → Peach type

👉 If you have more A's, you lean toward Mario; if more B's, you lean toward Peach.

🪞 How to use this self-diagnosis

1. Acknowledge your "natural energy"

If you are the Mario type, you have strong power to "take action and make it happen."

👉 You are good at actually moving forward with things you decide to "do."

If you are the Peach type, you have a strong ability to "trust and receive."

👉 You are good at consulting with others and attracting opportunities.

First, acknowledge that "because I lean this way, this is my strength."

For me, rather than taking action myself,
I am actually better at going with the flow and bringing what I've nurtured to fruition.

Therefore, when I do take action myself,
I keep my expectations moderate.

I make sure to be well-prepared
so that I can jump on any opportunity that comes my way!

Knowing this makes it easier to plan your strategy.

2. Find ways to supplement your missing energy

The Mario type should practice "delegating."

→ Gain experience by "asking for favors" or "seeking help," even for small things.

The Peach type should practice "taking action yourself."

→ Accumulate small challenges (speaking up, making decisions on your own).

👉 Being conscious of the balance between both will make the flow of turning desires into energy smoother.

3. Make what you want concrete

When you can't think of what you "want," it's a sign that you don't believe in your ability to either achieve it or receive it.

So, first, try putting what you "truly want" into words, starting small.

Example:

"I want to be trusted"

"I want 30 minutes of alone time a day"

"I want to lose 3kg by Christmas"

👉 By making vague wishes concrete, both Mario and Peach will start to move.

The hidden side of when you can't feel desire

Actually, when you can't honestly say you "want" something, it's a sign that you've stopped believing it can be fulfilled.

Not believing in Mario → "It's useless to act because it won't come true anyway"

Not believing in Peach → "There's no point in saying I want it because I won't get it anyway"

As a result, you end up locking away the "want" itself.

That is why your desires do not turn into energy and instead stagnate.

How to turn desire into energy

In order to feel that you "want" something,

Can make it happen through action (Mario)

Can believe and receive (Peach)

A 'YES' to both is necessary.

If either is missing, you will be dragged down by self-denial and resignation.

Reclaim what you 'want' with QMLL

Q (Question): 'What do you really want?'

M (Meaning): 'What is the meaning of obtaining it?'

L (Learn): 'What past experience have you had where you achieved what you wanted?'

L (Link): 'How will you connect that experience to the next step?'

In this frame, find the premise that negates your 'wants',

and you can reclaim both Mario and Peach.

Summary

If your self-image is Princess Peach, Mario can do his best.

Both Mario and Princess Peach are you.

Mario = The power to achieve what you want

Peach = The power to receive what you want

When you believe in both, desire turns into energy that moves the future.