Stop blaming someone or something, making yourself a victim, and limiting your own steps.

Let's stop making excuses.

Because the environment I grew up in was like this
Because my parents were like this
Because I am a single parent

That's why I couldn't do it...
That's why I ended up like this...

These are just excuses.
Searching for excuses not to do something,
blaming someone or something,
you are just making yourself a victim!

Why don't you stop it already?

For me, this was quite deeply rooted regarding my mother.
As I spent years introspecting,
I realized that by making my mother the perpetrator and myself the victim,
I was simply not looking at myself.

I can now meet and talk normally with my mother,
whom I didn't want to see or even talk to.

Let's listen properly to our own voices.
The more I think about meeting my own needs,
the more I notice the things that are limiting me.

Recently, I have been removing this and that
that I had attached to the excuse, "Because I am a single parent."
One by one.

Because my income is only this much,
because my child's tuition, food, and other various things cost money,
I should refrain from eating out, and what I want comes second...
Oh, so many things.

I needed these excuses at that time.
"I turned out this way because I was raised by such a mother"
"I had no choice but to do this because I am a single parent"
By making excuses, there were things I thought I was protecting, and it also provided a sense of security.

When this sense of security starts to feel wrong,
it is time to graduate!!!

Thank you to the me of that time.
I was protected.
Once you express gratitude,
it's like taking off clothes that have become too small.

Only you can take the first step.
Even if someone can push you from behind,
only you can actually take that step forward!

The first step is scary and unsettling.
But I want you to feel the world that lies beyond that step.
What kind of face does the you beyond that have, what are you wearing, and what are you doing?


No matter what your situation is,
if you think of yourself as a victim and blame someone or something, that is the end.

Do you want to end it here?
Or do you want to see what lies beyond?

I am currently revamping how I spend money!
Aiming for the me I want to be in one month, three months, and one year!

One step.

Everything is for myself.